I still remember when I was talking about a relationship I couldn't love, a friend said that I didn't love myself and ruined myself for an unworthy person. She has always believed that she is a sober person, not easily bound by love and can leave at any time. But after I really fell in love with that person, I have become a pair of people who can't let go.
She has been with boys for three years, and has reached the point of talking about marriage, but she broke up because of the bride price crash. Both parents are unwilling to compromise, so they have to separate. I used to say rashly that "everything will be separated because of lack of love", but there are really some people who are not separated by themselves. After three years of love, both of them are about to enter the marriage hall. All imaginations about the future are about each other's figures, but in the end they go their separate ways. I don't think many people can be calm.
The separation of adults is not easy to cry, not easy to die and not easy to live. They still work and live as usual, but there is a piece missing from their lives that is hard to erase. My friend said that she probably couldn't let him go in her life. The man who was destined to hold hands, but was destined not to grow old together, became a scar that he could not calm down. In fact, not all separations need to be a strange road. In the face of people who hurt themselves, we have to force ourselves to let go, and some people, if they really can't forget, can't compare with guarding each other in another way.
1 It's also a good idea to keep his contact number. When they want to break up, most people will choose the decisive way of hacking and deleting to say goodbye to each other, so as to force themselves to let go. Indeed, this is an effective way to help each other get rid of their own world completely. Just deleted. Do you really want to? You also want to inquire about his login in many ways, and you will quietly dig out all the dating software of the other party to see his trace. When you mention him, you are full of regret.
Everyone will like many people in his life, and once loved some people. Most people will eventually quit life as time goes by, but there will always be one person, even if they are not together, but they have been hidden in their hearts. Some people will not do too much harm to everyone when they leave, and some people will have a cramp in their legs, and their bones will be peeled off, taking away all their lives.
It turns out that not everyone has to use passers-by. Some memories are properly dissipated, and some people are properly preserved, forcing themselves to let go. On the contrary, they will always be in pain. It is better to leave his WeChat, just to see it, which is also a beautiful mark.
Become the most special friend of the other person. How many people love a person deeply in the name of friends, and how many people are willing to stay together and are unwilling to leave knowing that they can't be lovers. This kind of guardian is undoubtedly the most affectionate than the persistence of congenial feelings. Everyone has to say that there will always be such a person, a Zhu Shazhi in my heart, which can't be erased when printed on your heart. That miss can't be completely rid of in a simple sentence.
You can't treat him like a passer-by, and you can't stand at a distance and observe all his joys and sorrows. You should try your best to stand beside him and participate in his life. It's better to be each other's most special friends and talk about life without writing romantic novels. Everyone can talk to each other and know you best, so you can give her strength when she is at a loss and give her a little warmth with your weak kinetic energy.
Don't disturb, don't make public, care silently, and silently guard the relationship that can return from lovers to friends. Although it is a good thing, not everyone can have such good luck. Some people can't be friends once they lose their true identity. If they look at it again, they still want it. Every time I chat with each other, every time I see him grovelling, there will be an irrational desire to hug him. You call yourself a friend, but you want to go further.
If you want to be friends willingly, the best way is to take a step back, keep your love in your heart silently, don't show it deliberately, don't let him know, don't disturb each other, just hide in the corner and care for him silently and protect him. Some people can't make a positive result, so they can only hide that feeling between their teeth and in the years. There is no need to announce it to everyone, only they know it.
After breaking up, I usually advise you to force yourself to let go even if you don't want to. It's just that some feelings are too strong for some people to let go, and sometimes the more you force yourself to let go, the more unforgettable it is. It is a good idea to let nature take its course. After deleting wechat, you will try your best to let him land and keep it as a thought. Maybe one day you will never open his unreasonable troubles on WeChat again, and you will really let it go at that moment.
If you can't be lovers, it's good to be each other's most special friends. Everyone can participate in each other's life from the perspective of a smiling person and give him the warmest support. If you don't want to be friends, it's better to take a step back, don't appear, don't disturb, hide quietly in your heart, care silently and guard quietly.