Little friends are willing to be friends. Like-minded people should become friends. The interest relationship between them is very light, and the benefits of materialization can be omitted.
If people who meet by chance and don't know each other want to be friends, the interest relationship between them is very important, and it is essential to make each other happy and satisfied. We might as well understand these two sentences from the perspective of ethics, which may not mean what kind of friends we want and what kind of friends we don't want; In other words, what kind of friendship is noble and what kind of friendship is despicable. The ancients in China had the mind of "all men are brothers within the four seas", and the modern western civilization also had the realm of "fraternity". Simply put, everyone should be friends with each other. However, there are many different people in the world. Based on one rule, one standard and one form of friendship, it is impossible to make all of them friends. I believe that a person's personality, his experience, status and cultural influence can form his principles of making friends, and the types of making friends also have certain tendencies. However, under normal circumstances, each of us has many kinds of friends, and we can maintain and develop our friendship with them in different ways, thus achieving equality and mutual benefit in different realms. People can have this ability, which is determined by the inherent diversity of people's inner world. In other words, people can't just be emotional, unhealthy, unhappy, unsafe, disloyal, undignified and immoral. Because if you want something, you have to pay, and if you want something different, you have to pay something different. This is the truth: spiritual friends should make spiritual efforts, emotional friends should make emotional efforts, and material friends should make material efforts ..... Don't be arrogant, chaotic and blind.