Since we are not in the same circle, why should others understand us? You also said it was someone else, not the circle. Since it is someone else, it is not a good friend around you. Why do you care so much about other people's understanding? Is it not good to be yourself? Why try to make others understand you? Even if others understand you, what can you get? When others understand you, you feel comfortable, but comfortable. Only when others don't understand, can you see a lot, learn a lot and become more mature.

Let me give you an example. We all know Hua Chenyu. He is a very talented singer. He is a geek, so to speak. Now many people like him and listen to his songs. Do you know what Hua Chenyu used to be like? He used to have few friends around him and never went out, so he liked to stay at home and write about his brother. I wrote all day, and all I wrote was my own darkness. Moreover, his style is very sad and depressing, which made many people feel uncomfortable at first. At first, everyone didn't like him, not even his parents. People around him say that he is mentally ill, but he doesn't care about other people's opinions and still be himself.

20 13 "Happy Boys" was launched, with thousands of contestants. Hua Chenyu also signed up. Nobody knows who Hua Chenyu is. When he sang, the judges didn't have much positive comments on his singing skills. How difficult it is in front of him. At first, no one supported him. Let him step down as soon as he starts singing. You should be able to think of what he went through, but because of this, his strong personality won him the championship of Happy Boys. So the official debut has been recognized and liked by everyone. So in fact, it is normal for others not to understand themselves. Just do what you should do and live every day carefully.