Roommates in college are the most unforgettable. They are not just roommates, but also friends. Below is the article I compiled for you about roommate friendship. I hope you like it.

Unforgettable dormitory friendship

I’m very happy to have contacted my sisters recently! Let’s recall a few years ago, which was my first stop after leaving home?

The first time I stayed at 304 was at 304. At that time, everyone misunderstood me as a lady, and the fifth sister was afraid of this. However, I revealed my true colors that night. I was simply crazy. At first, I didn’t talk much because I wasn’t familiar with her. , it seems that I am very quiet, hehe, have you been deceived by me?

The first person I saw when I arrived at the dormitory was the third sister. She had already packed up, and was sitting on the bed talking to me from time to time. Thinking about it now, it seems like it was just yesterday? During the evening self-study in the cafeteria, the two of us would often hide in the dormitory to chat and sleep. Now I still skip self-study, but the difference is that I am the only one.

Sixth sister, Guiziliu, haha, it’s been a long time since I called? “Langsha, it’s not just attractive; Rejoice, is it so confident?” Our laughter, everything about us? It’s so beautiful, but it’s a pity that it won’t happen again. Can't catch it? The first year of high school is the time I most want to look back on. It lingers and freezes in my memory.

Fourth sister, Pepsi Cola, Jay Chou? The song I listened to you singing most seriously was "Chrysanthemum Terrace". I once made myself cry while singing it. Do you remember? Hehe, I was so childish at that time. You guys were with me. , always so happy, so carefree? But why did it go by so fast? Now I only miss it.

Seventh sister, are you not well now? I dare not ask for fear of affecting you.

Roommate Friendship

In our lives, the time spent in school is particularly precious. We come into this world and meet different people at different times. They may be life-and-death friends with us, or they may be just casual acquaintances with us. But no matter what kind of encounter, they are indispensable, because these are the parts that make up our lives. Therefore, I cherish everyone I meet. They add brilliant colors to my life. Everyone says that college time is the fastest and most unforgettable. This is the final preparation before setting foot in society. What happened in college is still fresh in people’s memories.

When I was in high school, I particularly longed for life on a college campus. From books, TV movies, you can always see all kinds of interesting things happening on college campuses. It wasn't until we actually entered college that we discovered that college was different from what we imagined. The plots in the movie are all beautified, and it is because of the great hope that there is an obvious gap when seeing reality. Although college life is far from what I had dreamed of before, I am happy that I have had many experiences that I did not know before. I've never lived on campus, so I don't know what roommate camaraderie is like. College taught me how to get along with others. It made me meet all kinds of people. There may be sadness and sorrow along the way, but there is also a lot of joy and happiness. My roommates come from all over the country.

The world is so big and we are just a drop in the ocean. The world is so small, so we can meet like this. Everyone has his or her own personality, just like there are no two identical leaves in the world, no matter how similar people are, they are ultimately different. Because of local differences, we may have big or small differences in various aspects of our diet. Fortunately, we all cherish this hard-won roommate friendship. Seeking common ground while reserving differences may be our way of getting along. Precisely because each person is an individual, we accept differences.

At home, it doesn’t matter how crazy or noisy we are, because we know in our hearts that our parents will never blame ourselves. When living with roommates, we will restrain our little tempers and put ourselves in the other person's shoes to think about problems. Learn how to get along better with your roommates.

After being together for a long time, there will be more or less friction. Sometimes I can't stand other people's behavior, but I can't say it out for fear of ruining the roommate friendship. But true roommate friendship doesn't require caution. Just say what you want to say, point out what you don't like, and express it in a way that the other party can accept. Only in this way can feelings become deeper. You know, during school days, roommates are the people we spend the most time with. We eat, go to class, and sleep all in the same room. So we have to become relatives, help each other, and support each other. I'm very lucky because my roommates are very tolerant of me. I know that I have a bad temper and am always careless and confused, but they don't dislike me.

I don’t know what other people’s roommates are like, but I know that my roommate is the best. Maybe after graduation we go our separate ways and go in different directions for our own dreams. But in my heart, roommates are for life. If you have difficulties, I will do my best to help. If you are happy, I will be equally happy. Because of you, my college life has color.

A profound insight into making friends

Without friends, the world would become unlovable. Whoever does not understand friendship cannot live. The most beautiful thing in life is friendship with others. Once a person gains friendship, difficulties and pain will be reduced exponentially, and joy and happiness will be increased exponentially. The above are some famous sayings about friendship. It is difficult to turn over if it has many roots, and it is difficult to fall if it has many friends. The more roots it has, the easier it is to absorb nutrients, and the more friends it has, the easier it is to get help. Friends are support, friends are courage, and friends are strength. When friends are used, there will be less hatred; when enemies are on defense, there will be more hatred. These are my reflections on the importance of making friends. It is important to make friends, but you must not be promiscuous. The consequences of promiscuity are not only unhelpful but harmful. The reason for promiscuity is mostly due to a lack of understanding of the principles and methods of making friends. What is described below is mainly the author’s insights on the principles and methods of making friends, and it also introduces some other issues related to making friends.

Having more friends is not necessarily a good thing

As the saying goes: "Many friends, many paths." This means that the more friends you have, the better. I think this statement is inappropriate. Because: 1. The more friends you make with bad character, the worse they become, which will make your path less and less. 2. Intercourse can produce friends as well as enemies.

To make friends, one should be well-matched.

In the past, marriages were about being well-matched. I think making friends should also be about being well-matched. The "well-matched" mentioned here means: like-minded and equal in personality. Because only equal quantities can be exchanged, and only equals can communicate. Unequal friends are not real friends, and their "friendship" cannot last long. Without the pursuit of unity, it is difficult to have a common language. Only with true like-mindedness can there be true appreciation, understanding, care and support. Understanding is mutual, and so is misunderstanding. People who have similar odors turn stinks into incense, and they are also well-matched.

Basic Principles of Making Friends

People will like you if you are transparent, and you will love if you are sincere. People are happy when things are clean and people love when they are pure. Only by being sincere can you have many friends. When hiring people, you should look at loyalty first, and when making friends, you should look at morality first. The road is slippery and difficult to navigate, and the people are slippery and difficult to trust. No one wants to live in a dangerous house, no one wants to have cunning friends. Quality matters when buying things, and morality matters when making friends. The most important thing about husband and wife is loyalty, and the most important thing about friends is loyalty. An unfaithful person looks like a fox to the chicken, and an unfaithful friend looks like a wolf to the sheep. Giving your most sincere heart to unintentional people and giving your deepest love to heartless people is the greatest regret in life. Making a friend with bad moral character is like planting a time bomb around you. Therefore, when we make friends, we must remember to put character as the top priority. This is the basic principle of making friends. Only when you know the meaning of words can you dare to use them flexibly, and only when you know the virtues of people can you dare to have deep friendship. It is better to have no friends than to make friends without virtue.

The principle of neither being humble nor arrogant

The principle of neither being humble nor arrogant is the principle of life and the principle of making friends. We need friendship, but we cannot bow our heads to beg for friendship, nor can we grovel to maintain friendship. Of course, we cannot regard ourselves as Big Brother and be condescending. True friends are like-minded brothers who are neither noble nor humble.

A melon that is forced is not sweet, and a friend that is forced is dangerous. Businesses done by force are easy to lose, and friends made by force are easy to be deceived.

Look at people with your heart

Only by looking with your heart can you see the human heart. The human heart is the essence of man. It is difficult to discover the essence of general things, let alone the essence (morality) of people? The understanding of the essence is rational knowledge. The acquisition of perceptual knowledge requires the senses, and the acquisition of rational knowledge requires a smart brain or mind.

Making friends depends on the heart.

Only when the heart is close can the body be close. My heart is close to my eyes, my heart is far away. Making friends is for the sake of heart-to-heart communication. The main thing about true friends is the communication of souls. If the souls cannot communicate, there will be no strong adhesion in other aspects of communication, and the so-called friendship will not last long.

Big things reveal people’s hearts

Small things reveal people’s faces, and big things reveal people’s hearts. You can't see the true colors of some friends unless you understand them. Because he can perform well in ordinary small things, but when he encounters big things that require him to take responsibility and take risks, he will shrink back. Such friends are not actually called friends, or they are called "second-rate" friends. Therefore, major events are the "touchstone" to verify true and false friends.

Time will tell people’s hearts

If you want to see far, you must stand high; if you want to see clearly, you must stand close. You don’t know the good or bad of things without using them, you don’t know the bitterness or sweetness of fruits without eating them, and you don’t know the good or bad of people without interacting with them. If you don’t read the book, you won’t understand it, and if you don’t interact with people, you won’t understand it. However, truly understanding a person cannot be accomplished in a short-term relationship. The interpretation of a book requires hundreds of readings, and the knowledge of a person requires hundreds of submissions. The more you read the book, the clearer it becomes, and the more you make friends with people, the clearer you become. You know, some people are very good at "selling sheep's meat to dogs'." Therefore, our sages have long taught us: The road is far away and the horse's strength is known, and the time is known by the people's heart.

Making friends in peacetime

If there is no going, there will be no coming, and if there is no friendship, there will be no ruthlessness. If there is no spending, there will be no gain; if there is no going, there will be no coming. Don't blame others for not coming today, only blame yourself for not coming yesterday. Buy goods when you need them and make friends when you don't need them. If roads are not built at ordinary times, there will be no roads to follow when traveling.

Cherish friendship

Don’t dare to cut the thread of friendship easily, not to mention it is not easy to connect, even if you connect it again, it will leave a "knot". Wounds heal easily but scars are difficult to heal. It is difficult to cultivate a good tree, and it is difficult to maintain friendly relations. The flowers of love need to be watered with love from time to time, and the grass of friendship needs to be moistened with friendship from time to time. So we must carefully cherish the delicate flower of friendship. How to cherish it? You should pay attention to the following points:

1. Value friendship. It is better to lose money than to lose love, and it is better to lose money than to lose justice. Husband and wife are all about love, and friends are all about friendship. Only with sincerity can we exchange for sincerity, and with trust can we gain trust. Trees are afraid of hurting their roots, and people are afraid of being sad. Love is more important than gold, and righteousness is more important than silver. Only when friendship is important between friends can they avoid hurting each other's hearts and maintain a permanent friendship.

2. Blame yourself more. It’s hard to buy shoes that fit perfectly, and it’s hard to find friends that fit you well. We should look at the advantages of things, and people should look at the advantages. Looking more at one's own shortcomings, reflecting on oneself, and looking more at the advantages of others and appreciating others are the panacea for resolving all internal conflicts among the people.

3. Eliminate misunderstandings early. Friends turn against each other, mostly due to misunderstanding. If the knot of misunderstanding is not untied early, it will only become tighter and tighter, making it more difficult to untie. It's not worth it to turn against one another over a misunderstanding!

Learn to look at people

Treating friends as enemies is sad, and treating enemies as friends is hateful. If you treat your friends as enemies, you will have fewer and fewer friends and more and more enemies. Glass is not crystal, and acquaintance is not friend. If you don’t understand the words, you can’t use them indiscriminately. If you don’t understand the people, you can’t mess with them. Therefore, we must be cautious when making friends. Here are some experiences in identifying people’s strengths and weaknesses:

1. View people objectively. Cunning people often judge a gentleman with a villain's heart. Honest people often use the heart of a gentleman to judge the heart of a villain. We should not judge other people's hearts based on our own, otherwise it is easy to misjudge people and make bad friends.

2. Changeable people are unreliable. Cars are afraid of bumps and bumps, and people are afraid of instability. Changeable things cannot be relied upon, and changeable people cannot be relied upon.

3. Sweet words and bad intentions. Sugar-coated medicine is often hard to swallow, and sweet talk is often hard to get along with. Flowers and bells and whistles are not beautiful in the heart, and sweet words and sweet words are not good in the heart.

4. It is difficult to value love more than money. People who care too much about money don't care about people, and people who care too much about money don't care about face. If you value money more than you value love, if you are greedy for profit, you will forget your loyalty.

5. The wolf’s friend is also a wolf. It is difficult to find a phoenix among the chickens, and it is difficult to find a camel among the sheep. Anyone who is friends with a wolf is also a wolf, and anyone who is friends with a snake is also a snake. A friend who is a wolf must be cruel, and a friend who is a snake must be poisonous.

Sixth, following the crowd is not a good person. People who tend to be inflammatory will have their lower eyelids swollen and their eyes will only look upward. People who easily call you "grandfather" when they are in need will immediately call you "grandson" when they are not in need.

7. A fair-weather friend is not a friend. A friend with fair-weather and fair-weather is like a passer-by.

8. People who are straightforward are more honest. The road is straight and the road is short, and the people are straight and honest.

9. People who help you are not necessarily good people. People who make you laugh are not necessarily friends, and people who make you cry are not necessarily enemies. Not all people who help you in times of difficulty are kind-hearted; some have ulterior motives.

Friends can go bad.

Things should be prevented from going bad if they are not used for a long time, and friends should be protected from deterioration if they are not used for a long time. Many people may have encountered this kind of thing: a "good friend" whom you haven't seen for many years suddenly appears in front of you and says that he has encountered great financial difficulties and urgently needs a large amount of money. At this time, you missed the old friendship and tried every means to help him. But your money is like a meat bun beating a dog? You will never look back. Later, after inquiring, I learned that my former friend had changed from good to bad, and he was completely different.

Facing friends turning into enemies calmly

It is easy for things and people to collide and for people to be in conflict. Once you become friends and close the distance, you will have more interactions in all aspects, and the resulting conflicts of interest will increase. In addition, many misunderstandings can arise. Also, I made bad friends that I shouldn’t have. Therefore, many friends end up becoming "enemies".

Friends who have fallen out with each other say that the other person is not a good friend, which will make them very upset. So how do you comfort yourself? You can think of it this way: An anxious rabbit will eat the grass on the edge of the nest, and an anxious dog will bite its owner. Expenditure does not necessarily mean income, and good intentions do not necessarily mean good rewards. Don't think too much about the ruthlessness of others, but think more about your own clear conscience. There is no good face when you are angry, and there is no good words when you are angry. Giving kindness to evil people often results in harm; giving honesty to traitors often results in deception. Only by giving good things to good people can you get good things in return. We are in the same boat through thick and thin, but we all go our separate ways when there is no wind or rain. Understanding friends increases friendship, understanding enemies does not make them angry.

Getting along with ordinary friends

Friends can be divided into several types according to their distance. Confidants are the closest friends, followed by ordinary friends, which account for the vast majority. Neither far nor near, neither easy to contradict. When dealing with ordinary friends, don't keep in touch with them too deeply, as this can easily lead to conflicts. Maintaining a certain social distance is more conducive to maintaining a good relationship as general friends.

Cut off bad friends as early as possible

The sooner unsafe factors are eliminated, the better. Similarly, the sooner you cut off bad friends, the better. Loyalty should be given to those who have a heart, sincerity should be given to those who have faith, and love should be given to those who are righteous. For friends with bad moral character, don't be afraid of offending them. The sooner you offend them, the sooner you can cut off the relationship with them. Otherwise, paying for one more day will add one more day of trouble to yourself and bring one more day of worry.

Friends are not equal to confidants

Those who know each other will talk to each other, and those who know each other will talk to each other. An acquaintance is not necessarily a friend, and a friend is not necessarily a confidant. Friends are easy to find, but confidants are rare. Saying your intimate words to someone who doesn't know your heart will only make you steal your heart and make you sad. The hardest thing for people to get is true love, and the hardest thing for people to meet is a close friend. Friends who talk to each other about everything are mutual, you are not the only one who talks to others about everything.

Friends who do not accommodate themselves

Friendship without principles is not true friendship, but indulgence. A true friend is not just appreciation, but also caring supervision, kind criticism, timely reminders, etc., not just good things for you or me.

Accommodating yourself will lead to your own downfall, and accommodating your friends will be bad. Accommodating friends is not what true friends do.

Don’t be jealous of friends

True friends, if you have them, I have them. When one party raises the trophy, the other party should hug and shake hands. It should never be ignored, and it should never be ignored and left. It is very inappropriate for an old classmate or good friend of decades to become envious, envious, and hateful when you see that the other person is better than you in some aspects. Jealousy is like lighting a fire between friends, roasting others and roasting yourself, which is purely harmful and useless. What is a good friend? A good friend should be one who dances when the other person is happy, and sheds tears when the other person is sad.

Only when the mind is clear can the eyes be clear. I hope we can all look at people with care, make friends with care, and make more close friends!

Besides missing you, I still miss you

There is the most sincere friendship in high school, and everyone treats each other sincerely. Let's share joy together, fight hard in high school together, and miss high school together?

Missing every class in high school, the teacher knocked on the table: everyone who was sleeping got up. ?

I miss everyone chatting around a table. They talked about national affairs, classroom scandals, and the love between men and women. ?

I miss sleeping behind the tall piles of books in class, or hiding behind the piles of books and picking up the mirror and looking hard at myself. I miss chatting with my classmates so selflessly in class that I got kicked by the teacher?

Do you miss seeing the girl you like standing at the door of the classroom and forget about the topics to discuss with your classmates?

Do you miss the days when you went to the Internet cafe with your friends after self-study in school? We were there Let’s go to the Bubble Hall alone and form a team to challenge Cross Fire! I miss every basketball court on campus and the life of going directly to the classroom after playing basketball!?

I miss the front of the boys’ dormitory. That piece of lawn?

I miss the joy of not going home for several mornings after an all-nighter and going to school in the rain. In addition to missing it, I still miss it

Sometimes I even I miss the teachers and head teachers who I "hated to the core" in high school. They restricted our freedom, used scores to measure our value, and often woke us up while sleeping on the table during class. I even have the idea that I will not say hello to them when I go out to work in the future, but at this moment I miss them very much. ?

I think of my lovely Chinese teacher YQL. Although she was sometimes criticized and what she said all day long was boring to us! But when I think about it, she is still a good person. ?

Still There is that cool geography teacher DCH who rides a bicycle all day long. He walks with a limp, but his lectures are very good! We don’t know much about him, but we still hope he is happy. ?

Thinking about it now, our English teacher Lao Yao always felt that it was my misfortune to have him teach me. Now I think about it, it should be his misfortune that the English teacher teaches students like us. . I hope he can smile more now and stop grimacing all day long. ?

Of course, there is also the lovely history teacher. I always find his history classes very interesting. It was just that he wasted it in order to enjoy life! How is he so cute now? He should be very happy now. ?

There was also JZW, the political teacher and head teacher who regarded him as an enemy at that time. His youthful vigor conflicted with our rebellious heart. We always treated him as the enemy who killed our father, and some even regarded him as the enemy who killed our father. His classmates also fought with him. Thinking about it now, we were really naive at that time. We used to look down upon you a little when we saw you on the "Excellent Teachers List", but now we think it's okay, it's nothing!?

Now that I think about it, I was really happy at that time, piling up "books" all day long "Although I am bored in the pile of knowledge, I feel quite happy now. Although nervous, it is very fulfilling, especially the relationship between classmates, which is very pure. I remember hearing this sentence before, there are two kinds of relationships in a person's life, very pure and iron, one is a comrade-in-arms, the other is a comrade-in-arms. Just high school classmates.

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I am a person who doesn’t like to recall the past, and I never like to go back to the past. I have been living the present and looking forward to tomorrow, but high school is a big exception. If I am given another chance, , I am willing to go back, back to that time?

Classmate, how are you?

More than two years have passed in the blink of an eye, and now I often think of the situation in high school, free and unrestrained, Just be free and easy, without pressure, without studying hard, just be happy. Time just passed by like that. Now that I think about it, I don’t know whether to regret or be grateful. Life has just come to this point. I wonder if you are okay now? I really want to have a good chat together and tell the story of that time.

We all came together for the same ideal, and then went our separate ways for different goals. We come from different directions, different places, and different families, but we are like sisters.

In my opinion, she is a very kind girl, very sensible, very stable, very cute, and very good at dealing with others. We have known each other since the third day we entered school, and our friendship as classmates is still so good. From the day we met to now, I have never doubted her, never had a quarrel, and never had a conflict. She and I feel very caring and help each other. No matter how big the difficulties are, we can overcome them together. Our study progress is very fast, which also makes other students envious. I have learned a lot from her. I have learned a lot. Patience, I learned maturity, I learned how to be considerate of others, help others, I learned to cherish everything, maybe we come from different families, on the basis of these things I also have, deepening my understanding, I really Thank her.

I still remember that at that time, our class teacher, Teacher Xiong, asked us to write a weekly diary every week. At that time, we didn’t know what to write. The pen barrel was broken, and it was still just a few words. Now that I think about it, , I wrote almost every day at that time. I am a very nostalgic person and do not reveal my emotions easily. These words have never been said out loud. On the surface, I am laughing and joking every day, but I have a lot of thoughts hidden in my heart. If someone comes to ask me what my personality is, I will definitely tell them that I am a dual personality person, sometimes quiet and sometimes lively. . We all have the same characteristics, the same hobbies, and even a tacit understanding of the soul.

The school is so big and I know so many people, but in the end the classmate worth missing is her. At night, in the dead of night, a person is used to lying in bed with earplugs plugged in, silently thinking about the people and things that deserve the most miss.

Time has diluted the years, and we have gradually grown up and have our own future. My former classmates, how are you? We once lived under the same roof. This kind of friendship is deeper than the ocean. Dawn? Always in my heart

Now I finally know that there is a kind of friendship that can defeat the love between men and women. Do you know Mao Zedong’s two sons? If you know the story of their brothers, you will know what family love is. , friendship. We may have been a family in our previous life, and we will be unforgettable in this life. No matter where she is, I will sincerely wish her the best. I don’t know what year or month we will have the opportunity to meet again. Time is not distance. Friendship cannot be separated from distance, and friendship cannot be separated from longing.

Dear classmates, you must take good care of yourself. If you have the chance to meet again, you must recall the past over and over again to recover and cherish those lost memories.