It is impossible for a person to do anything in his life without help, and the choice of this partner is crucial.
It is not easy for people to meet a suitable partner, so as Shakespeare said, "Don't waste your friendship on every new knowledge." Because the communication bandwidth is limited, it is impossible for a person to have a deep friendship with everyone. If a person treats everyone equally on the surface, it is actually difficult to have close friends.
?---------------------Wu Jun's "Insights"
I like Teacher Wu Jun very much. Reading his articles is full of Peace. If I had read words like this earlier, maybe my college career would have been better.
When I first entered college, I thought that personal connections were very important, so I spent a lot of time making friends. As a result, I missed many opportunities and read more books.
I was already out of school when I started to change my thinking. At that time, I was really in a terrible state. Physical reasons and psychological immaturity caused me to hit walls everywhere. When I look back at my good friends from college, things have changed and who cares about you anymore.
?Contacts are not handed over, but relied on. Only when you are strong can you get to know more people. When you become a great person, your network of contacts will already be dense.
Truly smart people are accustomed to looking inward: giving up 99% of useless social interactions and instead doing their best to improve themselves. ?
Because they understand: connections are not found in others, but hidden in themselves. Only by becoming stronger can you gain useful connections! ?
Give up 99% of useless social interactions.