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Have you ever met such a woman in your life?

She always looks heartless and always smiles. She doesn't worry about what others worry about, and she doesn't care about what others care about.

She is seldom in a bad mood. No matter how depressed she is, she just smiles indifferently.

I envy such a woman. She never thinks too much, nor can she toss and turn at night.

The past can be handled with equanimity, as if everything is not too important.

For the rest of your life, be such a heartless woman, be happy every day and never cry for others again;

Everything can be optimistic, forget when it is time to forget, and move forward when it is time to move forward. Everything is fine.

A careless woman is the most comfortable to get along with.

Nowadays, people are too calculating, friendship is becoming more and more fake, and love is becoming more and more fake.

I don't know when everyone learned to put on a mask and put on a fake smile to get along with others.

As Cao Xueqin commented on Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions, the authorities were too clever, but they missed your life.

people who like to calculate others think they are smart, but in fact they are only shooting themselves in the foot, and they will eventually reap the consequences.

a woman who has calculated all her life will be calculated by others in the end.

As a careless woman, everyone likes you, because you are the most comfortable to get along with. You don't have to speculate on you with your mind or be wary of you. When I am with you, the whole person is relaxed.

As the saying goes, "Fools are blessed. The naive in the world will care for the kind people. "

People who are always jealous and calculating others are too tired to sleep peacefully even at night.

such a person seems to get a lot, but in fact, no matter how much she gets, she will not be really happy.

what belongs to you will always be yours; It's no use calculating what doesn't belong to you.

a heartless woman is the most beloved.

In your life, you will always meet some noble people who will be happy and help you, like a spring breeze, and God will never treat you badly.

I think too much of others, but I suffer from myself.

Sometimes, many people's troubles are found by themselves, and some troubles really don't need to be too concerned.

you are always considerate of others, worrying about others' feelings. Have you ever thought of yourself?

Whether you make friends or talk to someone, always remember to put yourself first. The more you think about them, the more trivial things you have.

Don't be afraid of others being angry or unhappy. If you didn't cause it, don't bear it.

A person's time and energy are limited. The more you spend time on others, the more sorry you are for yourself.

the more you think about others, the less they care about you.

I have a friend who got married early. She thinks about everything for her husband's family. Her husband's clothes are torn and she sews them up stitch by stitch.

My mother-in-law's shoes are broken, so she takes them to the shop to have them repaired. She does everything in the family, big and small, like a nanny.

I sometimes ask her out for dinner, and she always says,

Next time, I'm afraid my husband will work overtime tonight and come back without food.

She hardly has her own private time. She thinks about everything for others, but never thinks about herself. When she goes shopping to buy a dress, she always chooses the cheapest one.

People can't be too selfish, but they can't be too selfless. Sometimes, if you think of others, you can't get the other person's equal empathy. How many people can deserve your sincerity?

If you really have extra time, spend it on yourself. Improving yourself and enriching yourself are more important than anything else.

There are enough troubles in life, so don't work too hard for others. If you work too hard, others will not appreciate you, and your kindness will be regarded as a donkey's liver and lung, and you will suffer in the end.

If you attach too much importance to affection and righteousness, you will hurt yourself.

In this society, women who attach too much importance to affection and righteousness are most likely to be hurt by others.

you treat everyone sincerely, value every feeling, and don't have the heart to hurt any friend, so you do everything for your friend.

but in the end, you find that you are not that important in his heart.

One or two true confidants are enough. A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. It's enough to give timely help in times of trouble. You don't have to think too much about the rest of the time. Between friends, there's no need to say more.

Some people take their friends too seriously and want to leave her the best things, preferring to suffer for themselves rather than for her.

But your kindness is sometimes a burden to others. If you are too kind to her, she may feel guilty.

The same is true between relatives. Keep a proper distance and don't always rush to be nice to others.

people's hearts are all fleshy, so how can they not be rewarded? When he is not good enough for you, will your heart start to feel uncomfortable?

When you meet a lover, you should be rational, and don't give without reservation. If you value a relationship too much, you will lose it faster.

because of human nature, it is easy to hide when being favored.

Sometimes, it's good to be a heartless woman, and you don't have to think too much about the relationship with others.

when you are happy, you can be happy together. If you have a little conflict, you can immediately clarify it without thinking.

The more you think, the more troubles you have. The more troubles you have, the faster you get old.

people's life is not long, and time goes by little by little.

Year after year, it's a blink of an eye, and you get old. Some things really don't need to be taken too seriously. If you look down on gains and losses, everything will be fine.

Only if you have no heart and lungs can you live without fatigue

Most women who live with fatigue think too much about others, too little about themselves, too kind to others and too hard on themselves.

Actually, we are the most important. We don't have to care too much about other people's eyes. Just have a good time.

If there are people who like you, there will be people who don't like you. Why do you care so much?

heartless women are never too tired, they don't think too much, and everything is let nature take its course.

in the end, everything will work out, and when you cross the bridge, nothing is impossible.

heartless women are the most comfortable to get along with people, because they have no negative energy and won't haggle over every ounce.

Take a step back, and life will pass with a blind eye.

For the rest of my life, I hope everyone can be a heartless woman, live a good life and never have to worry about others again.

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