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Does the number of friends have anything to do with character?

I think the number of friends is related to the character. Although there is an old saying that Qin Hui also has three or two close friends. But no matter what, if your character is not good, no friends will treat you sincerely. Let me talk about the reasons below:

First, if you have a bad character, you will not make friends. The most important thing for a friend is sincerity. If you have a bad character, that is to say, you have deceived your friends or have shortcomings that are unacceptable to most people, you will not be able to make some friends. Even if you have friends, in the end, you will still be rejected by your friends.

I added someone on WeChat before, and he added me on his own initiative. That person was a waiter in a hotel. He added me because he wanted to find a job, but he is not that honest. For example, coffee, I work in coffee-related industries. I asked him if he had ever made a bar counter. He said that he had done it. It was relatively simple. I thought he had done it, so I asked him some questions and asked him if he knew how to do it. Does he know how to make coffee or fruit tea, but he doesn't know how to pretend to know and tries to promote himself there. When talking about Italian coffee and American coffee, he said that he knows how to make coffee. But I don’t know what quenching is, I don’t know what hand brewing is, and I don’t know some common sense about coffee beans. When talking about making fruit tea, he told me about juice, squeezed juice. . . . After I corrected him twice, he was still boasting. . . . Later, I just added his WeChat account and could not become friends because I felt that such a person was not sincere. If you don’t, you won’t, and if you don’t blow, you won’t die.

Second, if you have a bad character, you will slowly lose friends after making them. If they don't know who you are at the beginning, they may become friends. However, after slowly getting to know that person, some people will choose to distance themselves from you because they feel that those who are close to red are red and those who are close to black are black.

I have a friend who likes to lie, but because of his eloquence, he has made a lot of friends, but most of these friends were deceived by him. At that time, those friends didn't know what kind of person he was. Later, his friends gradually knew about him, and they gradually stayed away from him, including me. Now he is only an acquaintance to me, nothing else.

Third, bad character can be said to be a stain on life. Except for their own relatives, almost no one is willing to tolerate a person with bad conduct. After all, without kinship, we cannot become friends, and at most we are just familiar strangers.

To sum up, I think the number of friends you have is related to your character, because in reality, I have never seen a villain who has friends all over the world.