Dink, the Dink family, refers to those who are fertile and choose not to have children. In addition to actively having children, they may also passively choose not to have children for subjective or objective reasons. The word "DINK" (the transliteration of Dink, the abbreviation of DoubleIncomeNoKids) entered China in1990s, and literally translated as "a family with two incomes and no children".
The primary criterion for becoming a dink is fertility and choosing not to have children. Secondly, it is a very important factor to subjectively accept and recognize one's Dink identity and think that Dink is a way of life. In real life, it is these groups who recognize their role as a Dink, and can better adhere to their own choices, manage and enjoy their own Dink life.
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People are often keenly aware in social circles that they are the only one who is not their parents. It really makes people feel lonely, especially on holidays. People talk about how happy their adult children are when they visit at home, or how to prepare their children's marriage, or that their daughter-in-law is pregnant and their grandson is about to be born. Taking the road that few people take requires creative thinking. In social situations, there are usually not many double-income no kids, and people with rich life experience and wide interests usually talk about things other than children.
Double income without children is very individualistic and independent, and it works most of the time, but it is also necessary to establish close ties with others in an emergency. People with children will naturally establish this connection because they need help to look after their children and things related to them in their lives.