This is not an era of fighting alone. It is inevitable for people to use each other. If we go back thousands of years and return to the era of wearing animal skins and eating raw meat, human beings will use their weapons to resist the attacks of wild beasts. Attacks can only hold together for warmth. From that time on, people have known that they need to rely on the strength of others to achieve their goals. This is the most basic kind of utilization relationship. Don’t think there is anything strange about this. Standing on the shoulders of giants can Looking further, everyone will borrow the power of others to grow themselves. This is an insurmountable process. Using and being used is the inescapable fate of human beings.

First of all, I have to say this. Being able to be used by others means that you have a certain value. A person without any value will not be used by others. It is nothing. What can he use you for? Speaking of which, we have to talk about people’s concept of friends. Some people say that having more friends makes it easier to travel. It can be seen that people make more friends for the sake of easier travel, which at least explains a large part of the reason. People make friends to expand their circle of friends because they want to accumulate connections to make their lives more comfortable. Some people also monetize their friendships and make money from their circle of friends. Isn't this normal? The premise is that you make friends with a non-pure purpose, and the interesting thing is that the other party also approaches you with certain purposes, so the two people have reached a tacit understanding, tacitly understanding, you use me, I can use you too.

Why is utilization a normal social relationship? For example, a worker just carried a gas tank to my house. My house is on the 7th floor and there is no elevator. This is such a hard work. If I had to do it myself, I might not be able to do it at all. Someone has done it for me. I think this is also a kind of use, but this use is paid, and there is no problem at all.

To sum up, utilization is the most basic social relationship between people. No one can live alone without society. Being used means that you have the value of being used.