/kloc-What should a 0/0-year-old child do if he is introverted and unsociable?
1, more praise and more affirmation
Good boy is praised. In the face of introverted children, parents should praise more, affirm more and praise gently, instead of letting everyone know. They are already timid and shy. Make a scene, I will be afraid, but I won't dare to do it next time.
Also, praise should be specific. Introverted children are sensitive and pay attention to details, so your praise should be detailed. If you can praise specifically, praise as much as possible. This is what they want most, so you have to be satisfied.
2. Improve children's sense of security
Most of the reasons for children's introversion are lack of security. They always feel that they are not doing well enough, and they are afraid to play with their children and answer questions in class. Therefore, what parents have to do is to give their children a sense of security.
In daily life, I still spend more time with my children, playing games and reading books with them. These processes are all processes that give them a sense of security, and they are also processes that communicate with them and make them feel great.
3. Parents should be bold.
Children who are introverted are more delicate and their emotions are easily influenced by external factors. If parents have high standards for them, they will have anxiety and increase their burden.
Usually, parents should be bold with these children, which will make them more energetic. At the same time, let them go outside more and get in touch with things around them. Don't let him stay at home and walk into a dead end, otherwise his mood will be more depressed and his personality will be more introverted.
4. Guide children to express themselves.
Often the more introverted children are, the more they have their own ideas. Parents should learn to observe more, take the initiative to care, and find more topics to guide their children to speak and express their ideas. You know, introverted children are not dumb, just calm down and put everything in their hearts.
Some children just don't realize this. They find it difficult to have an inner dialogue with their children, so they choose some painting classes and musical instrument classes for their children. These interest classes are quiet, which is not conducive to their language development. In fact, children can be encouraged to participate in some group activities, so that children will gradually become cheerful and outgoing.