Life is actually like this season. If people know whether you are happy or not when drinking water, only those who really care about you are interested in knowing.
Make friends, just like this season, when the leaves fall, so do friends.
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Friends are those who can help you in an emergency.
Xiao Qi sent a message in a friendly tone: "Brother, how have you been recently?"
Probably everyone's address book has a group of people who don't usually contact each other, but haven't deleted them for some reason or a moment's negligence.
Qi is such an existence in my address book.
Needless to guess, when he sent me a message, he just asked for money, which has always been the case. Of course, I also learned to ignore it.
No way, our parents have a good relationship. Because of face, we really can't hack him, so we can only pretend not to see him.
This choice is made because some people only use you occasionally, even if you treat others as friends.
Many years ago, when I just walked out of campus and started looking for a job, it was very difficult. I ate the last meal but not the next.
I didn't want to worry my family, so I thought of him at that time. I usually call "brother", but I can help you anyway, can't I?
As a result, I can't even lend money for lunch. At that time, I understood a truth: it is a joke to talk about feelings with your mouth.
It turns out that if you don't treat a person sincerely, don't think about getting anything from others.
Friends are those who can help you in times of crisis. You don't have to care about those who stand by you.
No one in this world has to help you, help you, that's mutual affection, and it's human nature not to help.
Maybe you know many people, but only a few people are your friends.
Of course, mutual utilization is also a kind of interpersonal resource, but it has nothing to do with friendship.
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Familiar people are common, but friends are hard to find.
Sometimes, people will be misled by various factors and form an illusion about their relationship with the people around them.
For example, when you pass by the supermarket downstairs every day, you say "good morning" to your boss, talk and laugh with your colleagues every day, and there are a group of partners who often team up to play games online.
Are these people who seem to have a good relationship with you your friends?
Probably, you are familiar with each other, and even talk more at ordinary times. You know them very well.
But these are not the inevitable factors to form friendship. They are your acquaintances at most.
Acquaintances are different from friends. Acquaintances can prove that you have lived in a place long enough, while friends mean that you have really entered someone's heart.
There are many acquaintances around you, and it's no problem to help each other at ordinary times, but do they still know you once you encounter difficulties?
Yun-peng Yue once said in the program that he returned to his hometown after becoming famous and found that he had many "friends and relatives".
There is no doubt that some of these people really care about him, and some just think that they can use him because he is famous.
When you are in the scenery, there is no shortage of people around you. Who else knows you when you are in trouble?
After all, sincerity is the most rare thing, so is friendship and love.
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Cherish every friend who helps you in trouble.
I won't care about those who left and abandoned me, and I won't forget those who helped me when I was in danger.
I always remember that one year my friend came to see me from other places and quietly stuffed some money under my pillow when he left.
These feelings are not so easy to forget, just a little touched and always in my heart.
I thank every angel I meet in my life, such as my parents, my friends, my partner, and all the people who have always cared about me.
Cherish it, if you meet someone who will never leave you, you must cherish it with your heart and live up to it.
Don't let your heart cool, and don't let the past hurt.
I hope that my deep feelings will not be disappointed, and I hope that the ending will be paid with a clear conscience.
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Emotional understanding of friends in the friendship department
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Author Friendship Tribal Demon Wolf