I don’t know if any of you have ever met such strong-willed women as above. They adhere to the principle of equality between men and women and firmly believe that if boys can do it, I can do it too! In their opinion, any earthy love words are just glib; anything quiet and virtuous is a stumbling block to their happy life.

This type of girls with their own single buffs have indeed blocked a lot of luck for themselves. However, although some girls carry the label of being "single and flirtatious", due to their excessive reserve, many boys mistakenly believe that they are already famous and have a partner, and they lose the opportunity to be single.

So, when we face a girl we like, how can we know whether she is single? Let me first list three reference standards for iron juicers. Phenomenon 1: Single social dynamics

But as long-term singles, they are basically used to loneliness, so it is more comfortable for them to live alone, and social interaction is something they try to avoid. , therefore, their social dynamics are not updated most of the time, and accordingly, their social dynamics are basically not very rich.

Basically, the few updates they have are either going to a gourmet restaurant with friends or taking a day trip to a famous scenic spot. There is almost no valuable content.

When they have their own private time, they will find spiritual sustenance from other things that interest them. For example, you can pick your favorite idol, play games to increase your score in solo queue, learn a craft, and live a colorful life. Therefore, if you can have multiple social accounts of girls, you will find that there must be relevant footprints on a certain social account.

But this does not mean that they live a colorful life and really have no desire for love. It is just that after being single for a long time, their desire for love is lower than the average person. If they could sum it up in one sentence, it would be "I want to be single intermittently, but I want to stay single continuously." They always long for love, and love will never have anything to do with them. Phenomenon 2: There are many friends of the opposite sex who are brothers

I believe all you veterans can understand this reason. Love is exclusive. As long as we have a girlfriend, the opposite sex within sight will basically be automatically targeted. Love rivals, some possessive old men will also require their girlfriends to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex.

But even if we old guys don’t care about a girl’s friend circle, most girls will still be conscious about making friends when they are in love.

For example, you may have had a friend with whom you could go out for dinner and shopping at any time before, but now you rarely go out alone with that friend; you may not have cared about slight physical contact with the opposite sex before, but now you will subconsciously avoid it; before, you would always avoid it. I will want to go out and have fun with my friends, and now I will give up many unnecessary social activities.

So, a girl who can call her brother everywhere will basically not have a romantic relationship. Even if you want to board the boat of love with her, you will be invited by her to the giant ship of friendship. Otherwise, how could you do it? There are so many sisters of the opposite sex. Phenomenon 3: Pay attention to makeup and grooming

The exquisiteness of a girl’s makeup is often linked to their emotional status.

Although the ancients said: Women should look good to please themselves, but there is also a saying: "Those who are favored are confident." After most girls enter a relationship, they basically don't pay much attention to their dress.

Not to mention the more than an hour of washing your hair, bathing and taking care of your body. It takes almost another hour to dry your hair and choose clothes. After that, you put on all your makeup, and basically half a day has passed. Such a time-consuming and laborious operation seems to be unnecessary when facing a person who is very familiar with it.

And those girls who can insist on wearing full makeup every day and always dress very well will basically remain single. Because of their beautiful appearance and superior conditions, suitors either think that they are demanding and difficult to pursue, or they are automatically assumed to be divorced. This is the reason why these high-scoring women have not been able to leave the single.

So, someone asked me what I should do if I don’t dare to pursue a beautiful and outstanding girl. Lizi has only one answer, chase it boldly! However, since they have superior conditions beyond ordinary people, we cannot pursue them with ordinary strategies for getting out of singles.

So if the girl you like likes happens to be of this type and you still don’t know how to pursue her, you can send a private message to Lizi with the word “pursue” and let me, a veteran, help you. Phenomenon 4: Prefer staying at home than going out to play

Why some girls find it difficult to get out of singles? One reason is very similar to the old guys, that is, they are unwilling to socialize.

People who have been single for a long time have a comfort zone, which is a lifestyle that makes them feel comfortable. For example, boys are used to staying at home playing games and watching sports games, while girls are used to watching dramas and variety shows. It will give them a sense of security. And once they step out of their comfort zone, they will feel uncomfortable. ?

So when you have a weekend break and ask the girl you like what she plans to do, and the girl’s answer is that she has no plans, then you can basically confirm that she is single.

So for those of you who complain that your social circle is too small and you can’t meet friends of the opposite sex, don’t stay in your comfort zone all the time. Go out and socialize more, and your chances of being single will come.

Of course, the above-mentioned phenomena cannot represent the whole, so below I will teach you a method to judge whether a girl is single, the hypothetical transaction method. This is a means by which salespeople assume that customers have already purchased the goods in commodity transactions to further facilitate purchases.

For example: When you go to a store to buy clothes and you are hesitating between two pieces of clothing, the salesman will say: "These two pieces of clothing are very versatile. They will look good with any jacket. It’s just right to wear it when the temperature drops after half a month.” In this sentence, the matching of clothes and the effect of wearing it to cool down are the assumptions made by the salesman.

Similarly, we can also ask girls by assuming a deal. For example, if we assume that a girl has a boyfriend, we can ask her during chat: "What are your plans for this week? Are you going on a date with your boyfriend?" If a girl is single, she will probably talk about her boyfriend, but if she is not single, she will probably talk about her boyfriend. Simply, a person's error-correcting psychology will prompt her to give objectionable opinions.

Of course, the above-mentioned identification methods cannot be applied to everyone and can only be used as basic judgments. If you can't judge whether the girl you like is really single or needs to get out of the relationship. For help, you can send a private message to Lizi with the word "Pursue" and let me, an experienced driver, help you.

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