Explain what a fujyo is

Fujyo is the abbreviation of "fujoy", and "fu" means hopeless in Japanese. But it's not a curse word like "otaku", but a self-deprecating self-identification.

First of all, people’s most common understanding is that “fujoshi” are those deep “otakus” who are dedicated to the creation of doujinshi. This statement is actually correct, but strictly speaking, among such otakus, those who really like BL are the real fujoshi. In addition to otakus, there are also some women who like singers and stars. They usually have the bad taste of "whether it is a 2D fictional character or a real person, in any case, they pair up men in their minds and imagine them falling in love." In other words, regardless of whether she is an otaku or not, any woman with this tendency can be called a "fujoy". All in all, fujoshi are divided into three versions: "Only otakus who have no special love for BL", "otakus who like BL" and "women who are not otakus but are interested in tight male relationships". So some people say, "I am a fujoshi, but not an otaku". When a woman calls herself a fujoshi, it is difficult to tell whether she is a "BL comic lover", a "character lover", or a "BL paranoid girl" with just one sentence. (Category Three)

In fact, the term fujoshi originated very early, and it began to appear and spread around the second half of the 1980s. The word "otaku" was mostly used to refer to male anime fans at the time, while women were dubbed "doujin women" and "otaku". These women simply called themselves fujoshi out of self-deprecation and self-abuse. As a result, the word gradually became fixed. However, unlike the encounter with the word otaku, the word fujoshi has not been popularized. In the final analysis, this is because this word is first and foremost a special word for them to refer to themselves (for example, in many famous Japanese doujinshi, female writers She was the first to call herself a fujoshi), and the word does not mean to belittle oneself. In other words, unlike "otaku", fujoshi only have the function of self-deprecation from the beginning and cannot become a vocabulary used by external forces to attack them. As a result, the scope of use of this word can only be limited to the narrow scope of "fandom", and it is even less likely to be quoted by mainstream media.

So, fujoshi is just a self-identification, and there is no strict unified definition.

Currently, the domestic understanding of "fujoshi" is mostly women who like BL among the three categories.

Recently, the term "fujoshi" has gradually begun to attract attention from the anime media. Even at the recently concluded C72 (Japan's 72nd Doujinshi Sale), the power of fujoshi was overwhelming for the first time. Otaku. However, the term fujoshi itself is not actually a new product. Its birth can be traced back to the 1980s or earlier.

There is a theory that the first issue of comicJUN released in 1978 is its origin, but there are also contrary opinions that the word "fujoshi" appears in it. There is an overwhelming majority of opinions that the etymology is from doujinshi, but specific information does not exist.

As for the reason, if you read comics about heterosexual love and see the entanglement between the male protagonist and the heroine, you will feel that the heroine is very annoying and constantly tortures the handsome guy, but when you read love novels about gay men or The comics don't have this feeling. Instead, they feel that the more they torture each other, the better it looks, because both parties in the relationship are handsome guys they like. The love stories described in such "bl" novels can satisfy their desire to imagine "perfect alternative" love. However, introverted girls who lack love experience should read "bl" novels with caution. They seldom socialize, are lonely and lack love experience. They are likely to rely on fantasies about plots in novels to satisfy their desire to fall in love with a "perfect" spouse, without being able to distinguish between reality and fantasy.

This is how Baidu explains "rotten girls".

The reasons are nothing more than the following points:

1. The family structure is relatively complete. Most fujoshi are formed gradually after puberty. The integrity of the family structure gives fujoshi a sense of psychological security. In addition, the completeness of father's and mother's love from childhood makes adolescent women turn to the love of the opposite sex that they have never received before.

And because the economic foundation of a complete family is solid and will not put pressure on the sensitive psychology of young girls, they gradually seek affection from the opposite sex to make up for the emptiness caused by adolescence. This is what the ancients said when you are full, warm and lustful. Men have it, and women also have it.

2． Family education is traditional or more traditional. Family is far more important to women than men, especially before adulthood. The emotional psychology of a girl makes her accept the education of her parents and rarely rebel. However, in traditional family education, sex education is not open, and the sex between men and women is not open. It became a forbidden area, and it was considered a sign of impurity for adolescent girls to talk or even think about it. Although this does not exist on the surface, it is deeply rooted in their subconscious.

Some people would say that the fujyo phenomenon came from Japan. Japan is a country with an open personality. How could the fujyo phenomenon also occur? What I want to explain here is that the person who said this is someone who has only a little knowledge of Japanese culture. Japan’s sexual openness is one-sided and a special manifestation of male chauvinism. Different from the sexual openness in Europe and the United States, Japan's sexual openness is one-way, that is, it is only open to men, and women are accessories to men. Men and women have a one-way choice, men choose women, rather than the two-way choice in Europe and America, men and women Choose each other. This is why the fujoshi phenomenon in Europe and America is not obvious.

3. This information, and the emergence of various novels and animations, adolescent girls will intentionally or unintentionally receive many sexual messages, which enriches the imagination of girls to varying degrees. It makes the originally imprisoned spring love surge with help. This period is a watershed. If a girl at this time can be pursued by the opposite sex and accept the opposite sex in her heart to a certain extent, this is often called puppy love. Or if the restraint of the mind is small and the love between men and women is accepted, they will not become rotten girls. But if the confinement of thoughts is too strong, girls who cannot achieve ideological liberation will develop deformed new concepts, namely "BL". They will also become fujoshi.

4． Before becoming fujoshi, they were walking on thin ice amid the confinement of their thoughts and their ignorant pursuit of love. Sexual fantasies related to oneself are prohibited and discriminated against, and the desire for love and sex is a biological instinct. Under the influence of this ambivalence, homosexual fantasies about men and women have been bred.

This fantasy has the following advantages. ① Be responsible for yourself, because you did not participate in the fantasy behavior and avoid being considered lewd or unclean.

②Imagining that both parties or oneself are men can satisfy the inner desire for the opposite sex, and can also imagine the perfect love pursued by women, avoiding the responsibility for the fantasy characters in reality.

③They who have no sexual experience always have instinctive fear when it comes to sexual fantasies between men and women. I believe that men are driven by animal nature. There is no such fear during BL, because the love at this time is pure, so the sex is also pure.

④ In the fantasy, both or several parties are male, and the roles they play are the ones they like very much. At this time, the girl's inner need for playfulness can be satisfied, while avoiding the consequences of playfulness. spiritual self-condemnation.

Essential materials for fujoshi

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From the end of 2006 to the present, "Neighbor 801" ( Also translated as "The Fu Girl Little Monster Around Me", the original work was written by Ajiko Kojima) and attracted widespread attention in Japan, and a live-action TV series was filmed.

After the first volume of the novel titled "The Rotten Woman" became a hit, a second volume was released in 2007.

The fujoshi work "Zombie Loan" has been adapted into a TV animation, which will be broadcast from July 3.

The famous Japanese publishing house, which owns BL magazine and BL professional website, published a special research book on fujyo girls, "Fujyo We Care".

Japan’s first fujoshi portal is opened:

As men saturate the comics, animation, and game markets, the company Toruko, which has a sense of making money, launched their website yesterday. A dedicated fujoshi portal website for reference.

We have reason to believe that the future of fujyo will be even more brilliant~

Types of fujyo

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In fact, fujyo, doujinjo, and danbi Wolves look the same, but there are actually some differences.

They can be divided into three equal parts,

1. Fangirl - YY anime (comic) character BL,

2. Tanbilang - Accept Danmei novels.

3. Fujoshi - the highest level, all BL is acceptable. In fact, their essences are different from those of dry girls and otaku girls, so don’t confuse them.

There is a way to stay in a house, and there is a way to be corrupt.

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Zaidao Criteria

Zhaidao has four basic standards: "collection, organization, sharing and creation".

The so-called "collection" refers to the act of collecting and systematically classifying ACG products.

Furthermore, if you are not obsessed with "special editions" and "rare products", it is not enough to be called a "collector".

The so-called "organizing" is the work of collecting and organizing information.

The Code of Corruption

There does not seem to be a real standard for Corruption at present. However, "corrupt girls also have moral integrity." The so-called "Corruption" at least has The following are the same as the default guidelines:

(1) A woman who changes into a man will be killed immediately! A woman wears a man and commits seppuku!

(2) Do not force straight men to accept BL, and do not bend straight men (boys/people with normal BG sexual orientation)

(3) MarySue tends to be immune. (Note)

(4) Flat chest and small reception and dispersion.

(5) In principle, reject RPS (RealPersonStory, real person YY). If you really can’t help it, the bottom line is not to disturb the parties involved.

(6) Adhere to the basic principles of "no exploration, no onlookers, no harassment" for gay people, and help if they are asked for help.

Those who violate the above guidelines are "loli".

Note: A role that the author puts himself into. This role will have the author's own characteristics. For example, their names are often similar, and this role will have a strong personal color of the author.

Generally speaking, a character called Mary Sue must have the following characteristics

1. A Mary Sue must have an extraordinary background.

2. A Mary Sue must have outstanding appearance.

3. A Mary Sue must be very kind.

4. A Mary Sue must have interactive relationships with all the main characters.

5. A Mary Sue must be very popular with the opposite sex.

6. A Mary Sue must be very lucky.

[A weak sentence: Early time-travel literature MS has conditions, and the imagination is unconstrained]

I’m sorry, you are not a female fan (you can understand the true treatment of BL)

There are more and more fangirls, but there are also more and more people who hate fangirls. In the eyes of normal people, fangirls are a group of strange animals who love beauty and have nothing but nymphos and watching men. Other hobbies; in the eyes of gays, gay women always spy on other people's private lives and are sneaky and sneaky. People are only judged by their faces. It seems that only young and beautiful people can be gay, while other people seem to have no right to be gay.

Why is this?

Because there are indeed many people in the female fandom group. What they support is not the simple love between the same sex, but the love between beauties in their heads. They are simple, naive and crazy. After reading too many BL novels, they always hope that there is someone in real life who can let them vent their madness, so they follow, spy and interrogate.

Isn't this interesting? In this real society, forcing others to admit that they are gay and enduring huge social pressure is just to satisfy their own crazy sexual psychology

Or, the straight men around them, or even themselves boyfriend. There are people who have no interest in this area, and they are deliberately cultivated to slowly turn them into gays. This phenomenon also occurs in endlessly. It is really difficult for me to understand the mentality of these fangirls.

You have read BL novels and know how hard it is for a gay in such a society. You cannot confess your sexual orientation, and you can only make friends secretly and fearfully. At a certain age, pressure from family and society comes one after another, forcing them to get married. Well, they get married and cannot give their wives a normal sex life, and they bear huge family pressure. Maybe they get through this life slowly, or maybe they get divorced again. Not only do they suffer, but they also harm another innocent person. If a woman gives birth to a child, she will harm the child.

But I want to say that for most fujoshi, it is just an outsider status. It can only be said that while fantasizing, they pin their feelings on related works.

A qualified fangirl should do the following:

The first point is also the most important. What you support is the purest love of mankind. Whether it is a man with a woman, a man with a man, or a woman with a woman. This kind of love is very pure. No matter whether you are beautiful, ugly, fat or thin, everyone has the right to have it. All those who love others are worthy of blessing.

Although everyone likes to see beauties, but!

If what you like is just the world of beauties created in novels, then, sorry, you are not a fan.

Second point, Gay and Les are both ordinary people. Just don’t treat them as exotic objects, don’t explore other people’s private lives, or even chase them. Treat them with a normal heart and love them as friends.

If you are crazy enough to block other people’s doors, see gay people in public places, block people from asking questions face to face, disturb other people’s quiet lives, and hurt other people’s sensitive hearts, then , Sorry, you are not a fangirl.

Third point, the life of gays is not as easy as we think, and the pressure they endure is beyond our imagination. So, please don’t forcefully transform a normal man into a gay. You may feel accomplished by doing so, but it will be cruel to that person. Just let nature take its course.

If you are crazy enough to see a man preaching the benefits of being gay, and even forcing his boyfriend to have sex with men, you just hope that all men in the world are gay. So, sorry, you are not a fangirl.

The fourth point is that reason must be gained. If a fangirl doesn't have sex, she's not a fangirl, but please don't be too crazy.

If you fantasize about being a man all day long, pretend to be a man in the virtual online world to deceive other gays, or even post shameless things like "I was raped by my father" and "I was fucked by my brother" on the forum Post, then, sorry, you are not a fangirl.

A true fangirl will sincerely support her as long as she is in love, and will never care whether the other person is beautiful or ugly, round or flat.

Have a good impression of the person who has true love, love the friends around you with sincerity, and won’t make a fuss if you know the other person’s gay identity. You may be curious, and you may ask questions, but that is just a kind curiosity. .

When you see someone who is suspected of being gay, you will be elated, and you can't help but have sex. You may even follow them secretly for a short while, and your head will turn pink when you see the ambiguous movements. But I will never deliberately block other people's doors and ask to know others.

Although I have watched GV and watched men having sex with men, I will not go crazy and pretend to be a man in the virtual world to deceive others' love and trust. I will also post some YY posts to gain sympathy.

Don’t be ashamed of being a lesbian, be able to boldly admit your hobbies, and tell people who don’t understand frankly: What I love is just love