When two people are together, how can a man "control" and really care about you?

01

Control your temper

Every man will have a temper, especially when quarreling, he will say some harsh words casually, Completely forget about the other party's emotions. But in the final analysis, he still doesn't care enough. If he really feels sorry for you, he won't even want to speak loudly, for fear of scaring you and making you leave him. Even if they are having a bad temper, he will not say harsh words to you easily, nor will he leave angrily. Instead, he will wait for you to relieve your anger and then accompany you to have supper or watch a movie together. Some people will always say that the man has a good temper. In fact, there is no innate good temper. He just wants to restrain his temper in front of you and is willing to restrain himself for you. If you find that this person is very indifferent to others and only talks softly to you, then you should understand how much this person loves you, and this kind of warmth is only reserved for you.

02

Control your thoughts

Many people may say that if you miss someone, you should express it. Why must you suppress it? But if you really like someone, you will care about what they think. If you miss the other person, you will definitely want to contact her and talk to her a lot, but you must also consider whether the other person is free, not Blindly disturb. I believe that many people just ignore each other and send a lot of words to each other, and the other party will continue to speak directly and keep saying: "I really miss you so much" without paying attention. Such people can only make the other party resist. In fact, the more someone likes you, the more afraid he is of suppressing his thoughts. It's not that he doesn't miss you, but that he doesn't want to disturb you. Even if he misses you again, he will endure not to contact you. This kind of man must love you deeply, otherwise he wouldn't be able to think about you like this, let alone miss you all the time.

03

Control your own circle of friends

For a man who likes you, then you are the world, and it only sees you, except, No one else can be seen. In order to make everyone feel at ease, he will also restrain his circle of friends, especially those of the opposite sex in the past. He will always filter out and not easily interact with each other frequently, so that you will not misunderstand them. It is very likely that many people will say that the person you are with cannot completely give up your good friends, but once you really like this person, he will make a choice. If he knows that you care about this matter, he will restrain himself from escaping instead of being with you. Argue and think you are making a mountain out of a molehill. In fact, a man's feelings for you can be understood from some details, especially his circle of friends will be reduced to the scope of control, so that he can accompany you wholeheartedly.