In this life, people have more or less friends. Some people use the crowd of friends as a way to show off, some people find it hard to bear the loneliness of being alone, and some people swallow unspeakable bitter consequences because they make careless friends.
What are friends? Friends are a kind of precious friendship that transcends blood relations. When you are depressed and irritable, friends can make you happy; when you are down and out, friends can cheer you up; when you are heartbroken, friends can cheer you up and be strong; when you are angry and unbearable, friends can make you strong. Make you calm; when you are indecisive, friends can make you weigh the priorities; when you are ecstatic, friends can make you sober. Oh, a friend is someone who feels the same joys and sorrows as you ***!
A true friend is someone you talk to, so you don’t have to worry about spreading your word to others; a true friend is a partner you trust, so you don’t have to worry about getting behind your back; a true friend is your loyal supporter, so you don’t have to worry about changing your mind. ; A true friend is your firm support, and you don’t have to worry about taking advantage of the situation; a true friend is someone who dares and is willing to remind and criticize you!
Have you ever listened to Xu Zhian's "True Friends". "A friend who doesn't tell lies＼When I was at my most depressed and degenerate＼It was your fault for waking me up＼＼Your confidence in me is more than my own＼＼You gave me no reason not to move forward..."
In today's society, can we still find true friends? Maybe you miss the past, or you miss the friends you have forgotten. Childhood friends are so innocent, and school friends are so true and loyal.
There is a Chinese saying: Birds of a feather flock together, and people divide into groups. What kind of friends do you have now? Maybe they got to know each other through eating and drinking. They can only be fair-weather friends, and they will eventually part ways. How long can such friends last?
Perhaps it is because of clinging to the powerful. How many people, when they are in great power and rich, gather together with their friends and support them? Can you tell which ones are not here to pry for power or wealth? People say that "wealth in the mountains has distant relatives", people say that "the door is deserted and the traffic is sparse". Can those who are maintained by the "chain of interests" be called friends?
Maybe it’s because of similar interests. Like reading, sports, travel, food, music... The same hobbies and the same topics can bring each other closer and even become friends.
Maybe it’s because of the compatible personalities. In real life, two people with opposite tempers are very likely to become very good friends.
Perhaps they have similar aspirations and become "best friends". In the process of working together, each other will complement each other's strengths and inspire each other, and will undoubtedly become like-minded friends.
Some people have a generous nature, believe in many friends and many paths, and make friends widely. They have black and white, three religions and nine streams. Their circle of friends is too complex and excessive, which often leads to trouble; some people are introverted, They are not good at making friends, and in the end they only count their fingers, and there are really not many friends with whom they can talk to each other heart-to-heart; some people regard themselves as noble and self-admiring, and always think that others are "not popular" and not enough friends; some people are particularly snobbish and only make friends who they think are right for them. Useful friends; there are people who live in poverty and happiness, and follow the ups and downs of the world. How many real friends can such a person have? ?
Why do you make friends? Is it for spiritual attachment, spiritual comfort, emotional communication, or is it for some other purpose? True friends have no hypocrisy, only sincerity; no suspicion, only trust; no charity, only help; no contempt, only respect.
Since we are friends, we must cherish them and get along well with them. The greatest harm to a friend is to take advantage of the friend's trust, betray one's trust, and do things that are unworthy of the friend. Friends cannot ignore each other, and even husband and wife have their own space and freedom. If you have difficulties, don't ask casually. Friends can help you without asking.
In this way, the tree of friends can remain evergreen!