Actually loyalty is a principle. If you don't distinguish right from wrong and cater to the improper needs of your friends regardless of the consequences, this loyalty is a kind of ignorance and blind obedience, which is extremely incompatible with modern civilized society. When people know each other, it is very important to know each other. If you get entangled with so-called "friends" with ulterior motives, you may fall into a maze that does not distinguish between things, thus harming others and yourself. According to relevant data, in a juvenile detention center, 78% of juvenile offenders are influenced by "buddy loyalty".

16-year-old Xiao Zhang went to Beijing from his hometown to find a job as a security guard, and became good friends with his colleagues Guo and Xu who worked as security guards together. One day, Guo offered to travel and robbed the taxi driver of his money. Xiao Zhang didn't want to go at first, but because of face, he reluctantly agreed. The next day, these people robbed a young woman passing by with a murder weapon and were finally caught. As a result, Xiao Zhang was sentenced to 8 months in prison by the court for robbery. After sentencing, he said to the judge, "My buddy lied to me!" "

Some teenagers can't distinguish friendship from brotherhood. Friendship should be a sincere emotion between people and a noble sentiment. Friendship can win you friends. When encountering difficulties and dangers, friends will help selflessly; If you are troubled and depressed, you can talk to your friends. The "buddy loyalty" comes from the loyalty of the rivers and lakes, and will disregard right and wrong for the "buddy" and not talk about principles. I often do stupid things and even fall into the abyss of crime. /kloc-Xiao Zhang, aged 0/6, is a typical example.

First of all, teenagers should learn to control their emotions. Impulse is the devil. Many teenagers lost control for a while, did not think clearly, and embarked on the road of crime. Therefore, teenagers must learn to control their emotions. Don't be furious when they hear that their friends have been bullied, and seek revenge from others.

Secondly, don't blindly follow the crowd. Many teenagers who commit crimes have the psychology that others have to help their friends, so I have to go without considering the seriousness of the matter. As a result, my friend didn't help, but hurt himself.

Finally, cultivate teenagers' self-control and independence.

Self-control and the ability to do things independently make teenagers clearly understand when to be loyal to their friends and when to give up friendship. Because the endurance and cohesion of peer relationship play a great role in the growth of teenagers, and also affect the degree of correcting your mistakes after receiving education. Self-control ability and independent self-control ability come in handy at this time.