Tao Kan is a lonely child with a poor family. Tao Mu endured humiliation and made a living by spinning linen and weaving, and supported Tao Kan to study. Tao Mu often tells his son that "making friends is more important than himself". Make friends, make friends with people who are better than yourself. ) The ancient book contains: Fan Kui, who is famous in the same county, praised his filial piety and stayed at home. When the ice and snow piled up, the chat room was empty, with soldiers, horses and servants. Kanmu Kan said in Chen Shi's language, "If you stay abroad, I will think for myself." Chen's hair is on the ground, and the next one is two beards. It sells a few tons of rice, and the pillars at home are all cut and half paid, so I recommend him to be a horse skin. In the evening, it is fine food again, and there are no followers. Knowing what Chen had done, Wei Xiao was deeply ashamed of his talent and said, "If it weren't for this mother, this child wouldn't have been born." Wei Xiao went to Luoyang, so he was called Yang Fang, et al. He had a good reputation. Tao Mu stopped the guests, recommended them to feed the horses, and discussed them in the village, thinking that they were virtuous. In order to show off this virtuous mother, the government specially set up a square for Tao Mu's residence, named Yan Bin Square, and the bridge next to the house is Dehua Bridge. After learning about Raozhou, Fan Zhongyan of Beining ordered a huge monument to the former site of Yan Bin Square to be erected at the bridgehead of Dehua for people to pay tribute to, so as to publicize Tao Mu's deeds of "intercepting Yan Bin". When I closed the altar and retired from Tao Kan, I worked as a small official in charge of fishery production in Xunyang. When teenagers go out, remember their mother's teachings. Tao Kan is conscientious, devoted to his duties, and kind to others, which is quite popular. Once, his subordinates saw that he was having a hard time, so they brought him an altar of bad fish from the pickled fish shop to eat. Tao Kan, a filial mother, always eats bad fish, so she took advantage of her colleague's business trip in Poyang to give her peace of mind with a message from this jar of bad fish. When Tao Mu received the token, he was very satisfied with Kan's filial piety. So he casually asked the token giver, "How much does it cost in Xunyang?" The guest didn't understand the meaning and boasted, "Hey, does this bad fish need to be bought?" Just go to the workshop below and get it. Aunt likes it very much. I'll bring you more altars next time. "TaoMu hearing this, the mood suddenly changed, happy, and worried. She sealed the mouth of the broken fish jar again and asked the guests to take the fish back to Tao Kan with a letter from her son. There are harsh words in this book. The book says, "You are an official. It is not only unprofitable to reward you with official things, but also increases my worries. Tao Kan felt very guilty when he received the responsibility letter from the bad fish and his mother. She was deeply disappointed with her mother's teaching and vowed not to do anything that worried her mother. From then on, Tao Kan was an upright official, with a clear distinction between public and private affairs. Until his retirement in his later years, he meticulously locked the generals' ceremonial ceremonies and warehouses and handed them over to the public bit by bit. Tao Kan's achievements in life are saturated with Tao Muchen's words and deeds. Help others for free.