Dinner parties are very ordinary. The important point is that this photo records five children having a dinner together. There is no adult. Several children are chatting while eating, just like adults, like they are discussing projects. It immediately made other diners present feel very funny.
In addition to being funny, some netizens expressed another opinion. Those who can have a dinner together like this should be good brothers and good friends. I really envy the friendship between these children, without any other mixture. Something that is simple and pure, and looks beautiful.
The world of children is simple. In their eyes, "good is good, bad is bad". There are no such twists and turns as "although, but". If you have a little If it doesn't seem to go your way, then you can't possibly be friends.
But there is no "overnight feud" between children. A little sweetness may make the children relax. You see, one second they may have been quarreling or fighting, and the next second they have made up again after giving you a lollipop. The friendship between children is so simple and clear.
Some netizens feel that as people grow up, they become more lonely. They feel that there are fewer and fewer people to talk to, and they basically have few friends. This is the difference between adults and children. Adults think too much and have too many interest relationships between people, which makes emotions complicated and they always envy the simplicity of children.
Children’s growth requires family affection, but also the irrigation of friendship. Sometimes friendship is more powerful than family affection. Because children have the same age and feelings, their "emotional" abilities are stronger and their ideas are more similar.
In the process of making friends, children can experience the joy brought by interpersonal relationships, which brings more fun to children’s lives, such as learning and extracurricular activities, so that children can gain more Happiness and energy make children strong.
In the process of making friends, children can better understand themselves. Friends can allow children to see more different versions of themselves, to see their true selves from the evaluations of others, to find their own strengths and weaknesses, and to help children understand how to better develop themselves and become better. confidence.
Making friends is also a process of strengthening children’s cooperation ability. Social interaction requires children to know how to adapt to the group, know how to cooperate, and how to cooperate with others, rather than just thinking about themselves. It guides children to constantly adjust themselves, share, grow, and achieve greater progress.
There are also many parents who are always worried that their children will learn badly and can’t help but interfere with their children’s friendships. You must know that this is harmful, so how should parents treat their children’s friends?
In a certain variety show, Ye Yiqian revealed that her 12-year-old daughter was bullied at school and was hurt. She did not dare to make friends for a long time. So Ye Yiqian encouraged her daughter to boldly make friends. Later, her daughter gradually started to have more friends.
The son of Huo Siyan and Du Jiang once said on the show that he was nicknamed by his friends. He didn’t like the nickname given by his friends, but his friends kept calling him Huo Siyan and Du Jiang. Jiang chose to educate his children through counseling instead of telling them immediately not to be friends with each other.
At an innocent age, we can make lifelong good friends, because there is no so-called "interest, cooperation" between children. Like is like, dislike is dislike, there is no duplicity, parents should not He easily interferes in his children's friendships because of his so-called worries. Instead, he guides and lets the children make their own choices.
I am Nemo’s mother’s nanny. If you encounter any questions in the process of educating your children, you can ask me. I hope that some of my suggestions can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of raising your children. Our children can grow better!