How to make his ex-boyfriend soft-hearted when we want to get back together with our boyfriend? When we want to get back with our boyfriend, we can make him soft-hearted by lowering our posture, showing off appropriately, and trying to please the other person. For boys, girls' coquettishness usually works. But for ex-boyfriends, girls' coquettishness may reduce a certain effect. Because they have already endured their girlfriend's coquettishness, this also shows that they have a certain resistance to their ex-girlfriend. At this time, just acting coquettishly will not achieve obvious results. We need to find other ways to make our boyfriend relent. In order to make the boyfriend feel soft-hearted, we must attract his attention to us, so that he can contact us. We can make the boy feel a sense of vanity by lowering his low profile, and through this sense of vanity, we can make him soft-hearted. . Lower your posture Lowering your posture is the first step. When wanting to get back together with an ex-boyfriend, this shows that girls need more emotional comfort, which also proves that girls need to take the initiative to find ways to make their boyfriend feel soft-hearted. Lowering one's posture means that girls have to make certain concessions to their feelings. This can also express to boys that they want to get back together. At this time, when they show that they want to get back together, they will Greatly improve the success rate. Lowering your profile means that you have to take the initiative to contact your ex-boyfriend and make some substantial suggestions for his life. You must not talk back to him or make him feel disobedient, thus affecting the possibility of getting back together. The right amount of misfortune. The appropriate amount of misfortune can also win back your ex-boyfriend's heart and make him soft-hearted. For boys, they cannot accept others, especially girls, acting coquettishly towards them. Then when girls show their tragic situation, it will arouse their pity. This also proves that the ex-boyfriend will feel a sense of compassion when he sees his ex-girlfriend's life is relatively miserable. This kind of compassion will also affect boys' views of girls, and the indifference after the previous breakup will turn into a faint intolerance. When this kind of unbearable mentality appears, it means that the boy has some signs of soft-heartedness at this time. At this time, if we pursue the victory, we can greatly increase the probability of getting back together. Please the other party. Please the other party is also a good way to get back together. We must realize that our boyfriend may not want to get back together with us after a breakup. Because the breakup at the beginning shows that there is a certain contradiction between the man and the woman. It is precisely this contradiction that will cause the breakup between the man and the woman. This also proves that at the beginning of the breakup, neither the man nor the man did anything to please the other party. separate. So when you want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend at this time, you can take some appropriate measures to please him to make him soften his heart. When the other person sees your efforts to get back together, his impression of you will also change, thereby increasing the possibility of getting back together with a greater probability. How to make your ex-boyfriend soft-hearted if you want to get back together 2. 1. Find out the essential reason for the breakup. When breaking up, the first thing you need to do is to accept the fact of the breakup, and then find the essential reason for the breakup, instead of just thinking out of thin air and blindly Acknowledging mistakes or making unfounded accusations cannot find the root of the problem, just like you are looking for the wrong intersection in a maze. No matter how hard you try, you still can't find the exit, but you can find the way out of the maze again, and if you If you choose the wrong way to restore love, the result will be even more consumption of your feelings. 2. Self-improvement is the core. Society is constantly changing. If you stop moving forward and fail to keep pace with the times, you will be eliminated by society. In the same way, men and women are basically carefree at this stage of making friends: there is no pressure to support the family, no worries about food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc. It can be said to be the most refreshing stage in life. But as time flies, what we have to face in the future is very realistic. It is often seen that two people have been together for many years. When the boyfriend finally breaks up, he says that he is too immature. In fact, we have been immersed in our comfort zone and have forgotten to improve ourselves. How to win back your ex-boyfriend starts with changing yourself. ? Start now and rethink what we really need in life going forward. Society is realistic and cruel. The core content is to work hard to improve your knowledge, shape your temperament, and enhance your ability to cope with life. Although the boyfriend proposes to break up, he will eventually be "secondarily attracted" by his own sublimation. 3. In-depth communication and meeting. You can greet each other like friends, just like chatting with friends, without showing any sense of need. You can also talk about the happy things and interesting experiences you have together. Or occasionally watch a movie together and have a cup of coffee.