Life is like a tide, and ups and downs are just common things. It is natural to be cheerful when you are proud, and it is natural to be lonely when you are lost. It is a normal state of mind to have a broad mind. With a broad psychological space, you will have a broad life path and life stage for yourself to swim.
Some people say that you don't know how wide the sky is until you see the sea. You don't know how small people are until you see the sea. The sea is so tolerant that it can tolerate everything at any time. In fact, the truth of being a man also lies in the mind. Only with a broad mind can we feel the ease and pleasure of "taking a step back and broadening the horizon". To be broad-minded, we must be tolerant of "allowing others to get along with others", be considerate of others' difficulties, forgive others' mistakes and attach importance to others' strengths.
There must always be some effort or input in interpersonal communication, and the needs of communication and the satisfaction of such needs must be equal. Equality is the premise of establishing interpersonal relationships. As a psychological communication between people, interpersonal communication is active, mutual and mutually beneficial. Everyone needs to be friendly and respected, and everyone wants to be treated equally by others. This need of human beings is the need of equality.
A broad-minded person must have a broad mind.
A broad-minded person can tolerate the intolerable things in the world, so that he can bear it and let it go. Don't haggle over everything, don't be pessimistic and sad, put your limited life into truly valuable events and live an optimistic, open-minded and meaningful life. People can have no prominent position, profound knowledge or even a happy life; But you must never have a broad mind. Without a broad mind, it is difficult for people to achieve great things.
Without an opponent, a person dares to be mediocre and develop inertia, which eventually leads to mediocrity and inaction. Sometimes you should be grateful to your opponents in life. An opponent is not an enemy, but a stop sign of a firm goal. The meaning of success, the value of life is not to defeat the opponent, but to win the most authentic applause with your own efforts!
To be less angry, be open-minded and don't haggle over every ounce. There's no need to get angry, and it won't solve the problem. The most important thing in life is to do something meaningful to live up to your beautiful life.
If a person's mind is broad enough, then what he does and his life principles must be very distinctive. To be a man, we must form this good habit. A person who is broad-minded and tolerant of others' shortcomings can regain people's hearts and achieve personality charm. This is also the code of conduct that everyone should have.
Tolerance in a broad sense refers to psychological tolerance in interpersonal communication, that is, harmonious relationship between people, tolerance, tolerance and forbearance when getting along with others. To achieve psychological compatibility, we should pay attention to increasing the frequency of communication; Looking for * * * similarities; Modesty and tolerance. Be open-minded and tolerant when dealing with people. Be considerate of others, and be considerate of others when things go wrong. Even if others make mistakes or offend themselves, don't haggle over every ounce, so as not to hurt each other's feelings because of small losses.
If you want to have a harmonious interpersonal relationship, even if you are right, don't be arrogant. Communication between people, most of the time depends on sensibility and intuition. It doesn't mean that you are right, and others will believe you completely. More often, people value the way you take, your attitude and tone. Even if you have a good reason, pay attention to your words and tone. In other words, the more straightforward people are, the more they want to be harmonious, that is, "be lenient with others."
People with an open mind should be relaxed.
The road of life is tortuous, but it is precisely because of the twists and turns that we have created brilliance, bred success and made our life more exciting and meaningful. Whether you are happy or not depends entirely on your personal views on people, things and things. Because, life is caused by thoughts.
In the final analysis, a person's life is quite like a literary work, with both wonderful chapters of climax and twists and turns of euphemistic wandering. The key is to look at it. If a person has a good attitude, everything in the world will be beautiful. Some people complain that they were not born in a good family; I resent my bad luck and everything goes wrong.
Whether life is happy or not depends entirely on personal views on people, things and things; Because, life is caused by thoughts. If all people think happy thoughts, then people can be happy; If everyone thinks it is a sad thing, then people will be sad.
On the journey of life, people should not aim too high, but treat their abilities correctly, demand success moderately, arrange the time and tasks at each stage of life reasonably, let themselves feel successful and happy at all times, keep a good attitude, welcome the sunshine into their hearts, and let themselves bathe in the sunshine every day and live happily.
Cultivating a wide range of interests can not only enrich life and maintain a happy mood, but also be used as a means to resolve tension. Cultivate a lively, enterprising, cheerful and positive attitude towards life, create a source of pursuit in an ordinary and stable life, and write a happy life.
People with an open mind should have an open mind.
As the saying goes, "the contented are always happy." People's normal desires are understandable, but once they have a lot of unrealistic fantasies without restraint, they can only add a lot of trouble to themselves. Contentment means to treat the status quo calmly, set a practical goal, don't expect too much and don't look down on yourself.
Open-minded people are really strong, and optimism is their emotional experience. Optimists can cope with the dangers of life and take control of their own destiny. An optimistic person, even if things get worse, can react quickly, find a solution and make a new life plan.
Life is not a form or a process, but an equation. There is only one correct answer, but the method of solving the problem varies from person to person. Some people have a smooth journey, but they are still afraid of accidents. They have been worried all their lives, lamenting that life is too short to be rewarded. Some people are walking on the dangerous ground, singing all the way.
In fact, optimism, like self-confidence, can make the journey of life smoother. To be a happy person, we must have a contented heart and be good at dialectical comparison to understand happiness. "Less than the last one, more than the next one." Open your mind and open the door to happiness.
Open-minded people should have the mood of helping each other.
Life is too short, don't worry about trifles in life. It's not worth wasting your time, consuming your energy or even your life. In this world, the most important thing is to do something meaningful to live up to your beautiful life. Don't waste your time on fame and fortune, and don't say anything about "just fighting for this tone"
Establishing good interpersonal relationships is inseparable from mutual assistance and mutual benefit. It can be manifested in the interdependence of interpersonal relationships, and meet their respective needs through the exchange of material, energy, spirit and feelings. Only by doing things calmly can we do things well. Angry people have low immunity and are prone to illness. Only those who don't care about other people's mistakes can have a happy and healthy life.
To be a broad-minded person will be calm and calm. The widest thing in the world is the human mind, which can contain everything. The narrowest person in the world is a person with broad mind, boundless love, optimism, broad vision and understanding. Narrow-minded people are pessimistic, extreme, conceited and selfish. In fact, life is like a tune, rising and falling. Life is like a hillside, there is a time to go up and a time to go down. Therefore, in the days of satisfaction, we should keep that quiet and don't get carried away. You should stick to it and be calm when things are not going well.
Hating others is equal to losing to others, and what is rewarded is your own life and well-being. In interpersonal communication, we need to have good psychological quality, which is a necessary condition for our social activities. On the contrary, poor mental state will form some obstacles, which will hinder people from making friends and adapting to society to a certain extent, and even cast a shadow over their own minds and affect their physical and mental health.
People with an open mind should have an inclusive mind.
Broad-minded, not born, but gradually developed through the experience of life. It is a kind of integrity. Tolerance is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, the embodiment of the noble character and accomplishment of easygoing people, the indispensable element in building a harmonious society, and the effective way to reduce disputes and create a harmonious and stable environment. The ancients regarded being strict with self-discipline and being lenient with others as the principles of mutual communication and dealing with people, and warned us to be kind, learn to be tolerant, grasp tolerance and use tolerance. The world is very big, and there are all kinds of people. It is impossible for everyone to make you happy, and everything goes well. The key is to treat it correctly and learn to be tolerant.
To be broad-minded, it will make a person exude orchid-like elegance, bamboo-like integrity and cold plum-like taste. If you can't forgive each other, let yourself live in anger and pain, and always try your best to get back at each other and vent your resentment, you will find that you are also a victim while punishing others. If someone makes a mistake, you forgive him, and he will appreciate you and respect you. Some people may think that this is silly and loss-making, but in the eyes of open-minded people, it is also a kind of happiness to tolerate others, because while tolerating others, it also resolves the grievances between themselves and others.
Being broad-minded will make a person steady, cautious and comfortable when dealing with others. People who can endure and be patient are very smart. There are differences between people, and everyone has his own way of thinking. If everyone can learn from each other, tolerate each other and understand each other, they can blend into a harmonious atmosphere. No matter how different they are, they all have their own strengths and weaknesses. If we can learn from others' strengths and praise others' strengths; Efforts to correct their own shortcomings, while implicitly pointing out the shortcomings of others, can * * * with the improvement of the level.
Excerpt from Reader's Digest/Luo