The so-called scumbag is because he does not take relationships seriously, so he is called a scumbag. Because of the scumbags, many cabbages in the world are eaten by pigs before they mature. Of course, the existence of scumbags still has a certain rationality. After all, flies don't bite seamless eggs. Only with scumbags can there be so-called good men. If a good man and a scumbag pursue the same woman at the same time, the scumbag often ends up chasing the girl before the good man.

There are certain reasons why scumbag men can pursue beautiful women before good men. As ordinary men, when most of them meet their favorite partner, they always feel that they can’t wait to enter a relationship with her and become boyfriend and girlfriend. Some even have plans to get married, have several children in the future, etc. Therefore, ordinary men have a certain purpose in pursuing beautiful women. And often when you do something with a strong purpose, you can easily mess it up. Because we focus too much on the results and don’t care about the process. As a girl, of course she wants to treat love as a step-by-step process and develop it step by step. Ordinary men pester girls as soon as they come up and start stalking them, bombarding them with text messages, sending them gifts, making various overtures to them, etc. Girls are not fools. When they see you doing this, they will definitely understand your intentions. Doesn't this run counter to girls' desire to enjoy the process? Girls may not be happy at all in this process. Think about it, if it were you who was with someone who has a strong purpose, would you be happy? This is why we hate marketers in the first place, because don’t marketers just want to sell their stuff? Now that you know his purpose, would you still waste time talking to marketers? This can also be attributed to the fact that ordinary men don’t have the “intention” of scumbag men to chase girls.

Of course, ordinary men should think that they are very "careful", why do they immediately send text messages to care about her when she catches a cold, why do they insist on "saying hello" to her every day, why do they give her such expensive gifts, etc. . Do girls need these things deep down in their hearts? What you think is concern is just what you think is concern. On the other hand, a scumbag, he understands the nature of girls, or he understands human nature. In fact, human nature has a tendency to be indolent and fun-loving.