Our view is that the advantages of students' extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages.
First of all, let's clarify several concepts: ① Students refer to people who study at school or learn from teachers and predecessors; (2) extensive refers to a wide range of people with universality. In addition, "extensive" and "excessive" are essentially different. "Excessive" and "excessive" emphasize quantity, while "extensive" emphasizes scope.
In view of our point of view, we have the following understanding:
A wide range of social activities can broaden people's horizons.
What is broader than the ocean is the sky, and what is broader than the sky is the human mind. Only a well-informed person can have enough cognitive power and judgment to look at this society and truly have a broad mind. The so-called "well-informed" is naturally cultivated in a wide range of social activities. How can you be poor if you don't socialize widely If you don't have extensive social activities, how can you go up a storey still higher? If you don't socialize widely, how can you make other mountains look short under the sky? ?
Second, extensive social communication is learning and practice in itself.
As a learner, the most important purpose is to learn and use what you have learned to serve the society. However, the knowledge gained by people in extensive social communication is as boundless as the universe. Confucius said, "If you have three friends, you must learn from me." The exchange of ideas between three people can collide with the spark of wisdom, and wider social communication will inevitably make people gain more wisdom. Besides, practice is the only criterion for testing truth. If you only know the golden house in the book and have never seen it, how can you create it? The tragedy of exam-oriented education can only be made up by quality education. Does the other debater not listen to Chairman Mao's teaching of "all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor" and insist on "reading sage books wholeheartedly and not listening to things outside the window?"
Third, extensive social communication is the improvement and sublimation of students' psychological quality and emotional perfection.
Society is a complex whole, which inevitably has its dark side. We will also come into contact with these dark sides in the process of extensive social interaction. However, extensive social communication is a process of comprehensive understanding of society. Since it's cognition, it doesn't mean accepting it all. Since it is a process, there is no hurry to do it overnight. The darkness of society has brought us frustration, but the night has given me black eyes, which I can use to seek the light. Frustration gives us greater motivation to succeed. Although ink is black, it can record the glory of culture. Thousands of years ago, Li Bai complained that "because the world can't satisfy our desire", but he still believed that "I will ride the wind and waves one day". "You know what?
To sum up, we believe that the advantages of extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages.
The richness of college life, in addition to classroom study, gives college students a broader space for activities and frequent social activities. Accompanied by this, the advantages and disadvantages of extensive social communication are discussed. Before discussing with other debaters, let's clarify a few concepts. The so-called extensive social communication refers to participating in various social activities as much as possible and expanding the scope of communication after completing the classroom learning task. Advantages are advantages, disadvantages are disadvantages, and the comparison of advantages and disadvantages is to see which is the mainstream and which has the greatest influence. We believe that the advantages of college students' extensive socialization outweigh the disadvantages, and we will demonstrate it from the following three aspects: First, college education is different from high school education, and we can't judge the advantages and disadvantages simply by academic performance. University is a transitional stage for students to move from campus to society, and university education lays the foundation for students' future life development. It focuses on the improvement of comprehensive ability, not just the accumulation of knowledge. Therefore, the judgment of advantages and disadvantages should not only look at academic performance, but also look at whether the improvement of comprehensive ability and the ability to deal with emergencies are conducive to future development. Secondly, social ability is an extremely important part of university education, which is related to the future development of students. Social ability is an important part of comprehensive ability, and the level of social ability has a great influence on the future social development of college students. The most direct and main way to cultivate social ability is students' practice, that is, extensive participation in various social activities. Therefore, college students' extensive social communication is not only to cultivate their social ability, but also to accumulate their own development. So the advantages of extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages. Third, extensive socialization does not mean excessive socialization. The so-called extensive social communication refers to participating in various social activities as much as possible and expanding the scope of communication after completing the classroom learning task. We didn't completely give up classroom study and spent all or most of our energy on social activities, that is, over-socializing. There is an essential difference between the two. Extensive social communication has a positive effect on the cultivation of college students' ability and their future development. To sum up, we believe that the extensive socialization of college students plays a positive role in terms of the nature of college education, the evaluation criteria of college education, and the development of college students themselves. So we think that the advantages of college students' extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages.
Fang Yi thought at the beginning that with the progress of society, the frequency and ways of communication between college students and society are increasing. We suggest that the advantages of college students' extensive social interaction outweigh the disadvantages. The advantages of college students' extensive social communication are: first, they can exchange ideas with more people and enhance some knowledge and ability; Second, more people can share their joys and sorrows, encourage progress, just like a mirror, reflecting their own gains and losses; Thirdly, we can overcome psychological barriers and improve our communicative competence in extensive social communication. The fourth is to choose good and follow it, and choose bad and change it. In extensive communication, we can personally experience and sum up experience, learn from their good and change their bad. One of the most important things is to overcome one's psychological barriers and improve one's communicative competence. The survey report of psychological quality of China Academy of Sciences shows that among college students, more than 80% are unsociable, 37% have obvious psychological abnormality, and 2 1% can't communicate with others. Many college students enter the university and society. Because they can't adapt to the complex society, their psychology is seriously distorted and many social problems arise. The key to solve this problem is to actively cultivate college students' ability of extensive socialization, make them adapt to society and overcome psychological obstacles in the process of socialization. However, it should be noted that the extensive social communication we are talking about is not promiscuity, but selective communication. It is in line with this important feature of college students to make friends suitable for their communication range. So to sum up, college students' extensive social interaction has advantages and disadvantages, but the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.
A famous English writer once made a metaphor, "You have an apple, I have an apple, exchange with each other, and everyone has only one apple." If you have an idea and I have an idea and exchange it with each other, then each of us will have two ideas, even more than two. " This metaphor points out the most distinct advantages of people in communication. On the road of our college students' growth, there will inevitably be shortcomings and deficiencies, which requires us to conduct extensive exchanges. Participate in a wide range of social activities. So as to get help from all sides, improve ourselves, make us study better, make our thoughts progress faster, and make our lives full of color. The communication between college students should not be confined to our classmates, but should be extended to the society for extensive socialization. Narrow communication will not only make us college students lose more opportunities to learn from each other and communicate with each other, but also make us unable to integrate well into society in the future. Therefore, take part in a wide range of social activities and temper your strong will. Put it in. The more coal there is, the more the fire burns, and the warmer the collective will be. The warm collective is not given by others, but everyone's enthusiasm and love. Each of us is a piece of coal, and the whole society is warmer. Therefore, we college students should widely participate in social activities and integrate into our warm collective. Of course, we don't deny that our college students lack social experience, but we can't be flowers in the greenhouse. We should challenge the difficulties. Carry out social activities extensively, but also pay attention to making good friends and not making bad friends. We should engage in contacts that conform to the identity of college students. Therefore, we think that the advantages of college students making friends widely outweigh the disadvantages. We emphasize that students should have the best learning environment, and believe that students study in order to have the opportunity to make more outstanding contributions to society in the future. The state needs to invest a lot of money to develop science and technology. Extensive social communication will inevitably bring impurities, which will inevitably lead to the reduction of the country's scientific and technological content and eventually lose the darkness of the country and society. This is an undeniable fact of the other side. The few successes that students can face do not represent the truth. He just explained that this is a successful road, but the road is more difficult. Therefore, we think that college students should spend more time on their studies. Extensive means involving everyone, which is extensive! So there are good and bad friends, and since there are bad friends, it will bring bad influence! For example, making some fair-weather friends, playing games and fighting friends will do more harm than good to college students! So we must define universality in the debate! We should emphasize repetition over and over again.
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Thank you, chairman, judges and other debaters. Good evening, everyone!
University in society, university is a micro-society, so it is not important for college students to contact society, what is important is their breadth of contact with society. Regarding "extensive social interaction of college students", we give the following definitions:
1. College students-sound in body and mind, with college education, are senior professionals trained by the state as the frontier group of new social technologies and new ideas, who can adapt to the needs of the future society, create wealth for the society, and consciously contribute to and serve the society.
Second, extensiveness-because it involves the special group of college students, its connotation includes two aspects: first, extensiveness; The second is depth. Broadly speaking, college students' social communication should involve as many social members as possible; In depth, we should try our best to improve our understanding of different members of society.
Third, socialization-refers to interpersonal communication except professional theoretical learning and related knowledge learning, including other aspects of learning.