You can choose whether to add him or not. If you add him, answer "OK, I'll add you". If you don't want to add the other person, tell him that "there are too many people on the list, so don't add him". It's up to you.

Expansion is a social code. Expansion refers to expansion and addition, and columns refer to friends list. Simply put, asking if you can add friends is a common word on the Internet.

A large number of new words have appeared on the Internet, which confuses the elderly or people who have just come into contact with them.

But these words have a source. It is either homophonic, homophonic or English variation, and abbreviation is the most commonly used. So as long as you know a little about the ins and outs, you can basically figure it out.

What is extension:

"Extended column" is an abbreviation, which means "extended buddy list".

This word comes from a post bar. Before the second clearance, members were forbidden to leave any contact information, and all posts of dating types would be blocked by the administrator, so members in the bar called dating posts "expanding columns", which later evolved into some common argots after 95-05.

The owner of this bar is a writer. He writes all kinds of news and articles. His exaggerated style and content are very specific, that is, young netizens. So, this bar is full of young people, and they feel cool about themselves. The invention of "expanding column" network words also spread with this coolness.

These young people now go to various online platforms, and one of the characteristics of online platforms is that traffic is king, so the number of friends, reading preferences and opinions are very important, which will not only bring benefits, but also make the new generation of young people living on the Internet feel a sense of psychological accomplishment.

It's like the article we published in the writing era was published and won an award. This mentality is the same.

However, the network ecology is still somewhat different. There is a so-called "Zanyou", which can "hold a group to keep warm". So if you want to have a sense of accomplishment on a platform, you need to have many friends. Even if there are hundreds of headlines, don't we also look at the number of fans? When you reach a certain number, you will have certain rights and become the "big size" and "great god" in others' mouths.

And the newcomer Xiaobai, mutual customs, mutual friends, mutual approval of the shortcut. In fact, among content-oriented platforms, authors and readers, this is a tricky method that affects fairness, which is not advocated by the platform, and there will even be some punishment.

However, there are always such people, so when someone tells you to "expand the list", it means to add a friend, pay attention to each other and praise each other. However, the other party's use of this online word is not widely popular, which proves that he is young.

Then how to reply? It's up to you. If you think it's a good thing to have more friends and like more, then go back and "expand the list" and everyone will become "favorite friends"; If you are a person who writes articles with peace of mind to express yourself, don't pay attention to it at all.

Because generally speaking, "expanding the column" is also without feelings, and it is only to broaden the flow channels.