Two days of professional parent class sharing

? I got to know the natural vitality of love through my classmates by chance, but I didn’t take it seriously. It was another chance to enter the parent class through teacher Wang Yu. It was all fate!

? The two-day professional parent class made me deeply feel how far-reaching the impact of parents’ education is on their children! What a blessing it would be for a child to choose a pair of wise parents! Yesterday was Mother's Day, and I saw these sentences:

You asked me what I was doing before I was born?

I answer

I choose my mother in heaven

I saw you

I think you are very good

I want to Be your child

I thought I might not have that luck

Unexpectedly

Early the next morning

I was already in your In the belly

These few words made me feel the great responsibility of mother! They have gone through so much trouble to find us, how should we get along with our children? How to raise them? How can we guide them so that they can thrive? What can we bring to the children? Traditional education? Where did you get the education from your parents? Teacher's allies? Daily nagging and pressure? …I’m glad that I’ve been on the road to learning!

? I gained a lot from the professional parent class!

First of all, parents should learn some psychology, so that we can understand ourselves and others; heal ourselves and heal others; make ourselves happy and make others happy. Through study, I understand that relationship is more important than anything else, and the relationship between husband and wife is better than the relationship between parents and children! Love must flow in the family!

Secondly, parents should read more. When reading, in addition to the stories in the books, they should also learn to read the author, his stories, his personality, his thoughts, and then slowly connect with the author's Make friends with your thoughts, improve your abilities, change your ideas, and transform knowledge into wisdom! But having fun alone is not as good as having fun together. Studying alone is very free, but it requires a high degree of self-discipline. For most of us ordinary people, group study may be a better method and path. So we need to form a group to learn more and practice more!

? Third parents must pay attention to changes in thinking when dealing with children on a daily basis and in the process of educating children.

? 1. Regarding problem solving, for families with many children, the usual thinking is that whoever has problems in the family should solve it, and what problems should be solved! The current thinking should be about who needs attention and who needs to be satisfied first; when solving problems, we must jump out of the problem itself and focus on the causes behind it, the inner needs of the child, the cultivation of the child's personality, and the long-term consequences of education. Use questions to educate children without criticizing or suppressing them. A real master should solve problems while cutting off the chance of problems occurring later! Through many cases, the teacher taught us how to cultivate children to have a sound personality through questions. Many of the problems that children have now are caused by us not paying attention to our words and deeds, not paying attention to our teachings, and step by step raising children into children whose shortcomings cover up their advantages. As parents, we are also confused by the only shortcomings of our children, so we change our thinking. , it’s not scary to have problems, what’s scary is to turn the problem into a real problem! When we encounter problems, we should say "great", I can grow up with my children again! Thanks for the question! Thanks for the opportunity! When we encounter problems, we must clear them up and not block them!

2. Regarding the eight major aspects of family education, environmental education is the front end of education, teaching by example is the middle end of education, and teaching by words is the end of education. But our current education is putting the cart before the horse and always putting teaching first. Nagging, reasoning, finding fault every day, being good at everything, and truly achieving a sense of familiarity. Disgust = resistance.

The thinking we should have is to pay attention to environmental education, minimize vision, and maximize functions. We should be detached at home and often take our children to visit the former residences of celebrities and famous schools outside the home to open their eyes; pay attention to teaching by example, and see everything For education, read books in the living room and dining room, respect and be filial to your elders, take your children to visit bookstores more, and exercise more; at the same time, pay attention to your words and teachings, speak gently but firmly, speak slowly and softly, noble people speak slowly, and speak fluently every day. Vomiting lotus! Amplify the child's strengths and improve the child's life energy. Achieve a sense of familiarity and good impression = meeting! Let everyone in the family meet a more beautiful self and bloom their own life!

3. Efforts should be made to cultivate children into independent persons. If we want our children to be independent in mind, agile in mind, and healthy in body, we as parents must practice it! In particular, we must pass the five major hurdles in life: love, sincerity, righteousness, gains and losses, and life and death. Only learning can make life smooth! Only by studying can you truly understand your own values! Only learning can become a powerful and strong backing for children!

Sharing of golden quotes:

When you have a family, you have family tradition, pay attention to the construction of family tradition

If parents change 1, children will change 99

Learning, enlightenment, and action

Physical eyesight, mind’s eye = thinking mode

Children grow up unconsciously if parents teach them with awareness.

Parents must give their children enough sense of security and values ??

Once the direction changes, the problem disappears

? Thank you very much to the organizer of Jiexiu for providing us with A platform for learning! We learned a lot of knowledge and wisdom in two days! The knowledge has been received, and it will become wisdom in the process of practice! That’s the top priority!

? Let us learn together with love, and move towards the future with love!