Do you want to express your love for a girl?

Many people say that the success rate of confessing or not confessing is 50, which is correct from a mathematical point of view, but from a practical point of view, it is not difficult to study the friends around you. Very few people are successful in confessing, and I personally feel that the failure rate is around 80%. Why is the confession failure rate so high?

First of all, confession transcends the staged principle of equality of needs. The feeling of need for a girl must not exceed the current relationship. But most people like girls, so they can't help but express themselves and assert their sovereignty. However, this is completely beyond the needs of your relationship with your sister. What reasons does your sister have for agreeing? The whole process of picking up girls didn't make my sister feel stressed or uncomfortable, or require her to think. The whole process is done unconsciously. By the time my sister realized what she was doing, she had become his woman. So I suggest boys stop confessing their feelings? Of course not absolutely. Everyone's situation is different, so it also determines whether confession is needed to achieve the effect. For example, the following three situations:

First, your conditions are much better than hers. Confessing your love to her is to make her believe that you love her and want to give her better happiness. Because you have strong conditions, your success rate should be relatively high. Second, you are about to separate or say goodbye for a long time. It's okay if you just repent but don't regret it and leave good memories behind. Third, the signs of mutual love between the man and woman are already very clear, and confession only makes her feel the charm and magic of confession.

On the other hand, in fact, it is not necessary to confess to develop a relationship, because every relationship is promoted by the girl unknowingly. If you insist on confessing your love, be prepared to fail.

Three points to note when giving a confession

1. A serious attitude is very important.

Because of your face, you tell the other person in a joking way. Many times, we think this is just a way for you to make friends, or that you are just joking. This kind of confession naturally has a low success rate because the other party doesn't take it seriously at all. Look into her eyes and tell her your love. If you're serious about it, she'll give it serious thought.

2. The choice of confession location

The choice of confession location is the most important, and even affects the effect of confession. Try to avoid noisy fast food restaurants and snack bars. It's possible that after you confessed your love, the other person hasn't heard clearly what you wanted to say. Lakeside, parks, and cafes are all good location choices.

3. Vote for what you like.

If she is a low-key person, then you cannot express yourself in a high-key manner, which may make the other person stay away. In short, only by finding the other person's favorite way to express love can your success rate of confession be greatly increased.