No matter how good the relationship between a man and a woman is, under what circumstances should we not contact each other?
Making friends is actually a good thing for both men and women. In this life, one can make many close friends, whether they are gay or male, this is all good luck. It makes sense but it depends on the situation. If you are a good friend in disguise, it will be a matter of time before you fall. But if you are a sincere friend, you will fall down mostly because your mentality is not correct when making friends. Especially for friends of the opposite sex, if their mental state is wrong and the relationship is not resolved properly, it is very likely that they will have an impact on the girl.
No matter how good the relationship between opposite-sex friends is, they cannot be treated as casually as same-sex friends. We can have a good relationship, but it doesn’t mean that we need to talk to each other about everything we say, and we need to find each other to calm down all the ups and downs in our moods. People are compassionate. If you are surrounded by someone of the opposite sex who you have a close relationship with, and you are talking to each other in unreasonable and overly secretive ways, it is very easy for the conflict to go off. Therefore, no matter how good the relationship between a man and a woman is, you must be careful not to contact each other under such circumstances! 1. After quarreling with the person you sleep with, go to the other person to resolve your worries
The person you sleep with day and night is actually the person who is the most casual but gets offended. When two people live together, there will always be differences and discord. The closer the touch, the easier it is to hold on to the other person's faults. This is why couples often quarrel every now and then. Issues with your pillow partner, no matter how big or small, are considered personal privacy between the two of you. If you really can't help it, you can talk to the other person's close relatives, but don't talk to your friends of the opposite sex after a fight.
Some people may say that since they are very good friends after all, it is not a problem for them to reveal their private affairs to their friends. But the key point is that you have always been too sincere in front of your friends of the opposite sex. The more you talk, the more you talk to them, the more they will think too much. He really cares about you, so he will naturally worry about you, help you with ideas, and let you make just the right suggestions.
If men and women talk too much in secret, you will gradually become mentally and mentally dependent. In fact, I can't help comparing the two in my heart, feeling that this friend understands you better, is more considerate of you, and cares more about you than the person next to you. Even if the other party has no other opinions, your own emotions are getting more and more biased. When there is comparison, there will be ups and downs, and the sense of gap will only get bigger and bigger. It is like laying a mine around you, and it will explode anytime and anywhere. It is not a good thing for yourself, your lover, your friends of the opposite sex, or your lover. 2. After ending a relationship, talk to the other person
There was a brother who came to chat with me in confusion. He and one of his colleagues have been getting along a bit awkwardly recently. They don't see each other when they go to work every day, but it's very weird. Originally, the relationship between the two was quite good. They joined the department at the same time and were of similar age so they could talk together and help each other on work matters. We have known each other for two years, and naturally we were not single when we first met. They just treat each other as good friends who come from different places to work hard and look after each other. This guy broke up with his girlfriend a year ago due to a long-distance relationship.
My colleague also broke up with his partner recently. Colleagues who are lovelorn often contact him about drinking, which seems to be a way of drowning their sorrows. The two of them didn't work independently before, they just talked a lot. Now that we are having sex at such a close distance, my brother feels that this girl is quite emotional, so he gradually becomes more and more attracted to her. Girls are not shy about it either. They make appointments with each other every once in a while, either drinking or having a meal.
Language and action both go a step further, which is a bit too ambiguous. But as soon as she turned around, the girl said that she was in a new relationship again and asked for blessings. There is no need for him to be affectionate and stay alone. Now when I meet him again in the company, I have nothing to say. This is the most typical, unclear boundaries.
No matter how good the relationship between a man and a woman is, after ending the previous relationship, please don’t bring friends of the opposite sex into your life circle too much. If you spend too much time chatting or doing things without a sense of propriety, the other person will usually mistakenly think that you are sending signals all the time and that you only found him or her because of good feelings. As a result, I was depressed, emotionally frustrated, and wanted to find someone to accompany me. Naturally, we do not rule out the possibility that some people just have two different things to do, which is really too much. All in all, don't cause serious misunderstandings. If you really meet someone with true feelings, it will be too late for you to regret it.
3. After falling out of love or being betrayed, seek comfort from the other person
It is okay for people of the opposite sex to have a good relationship, but don’t get too deeply into the other person’s heartache after falling out of love or being betrayed. Being able to provide a certain amount of comfort and doing joyful things with other friends can help him to come out as soon as possible. But remember, just fulfill your responsibilities as a good friend and don't show too much concern.
Today, when people are emotionally hurt, they must be psychologically dependent. At this time, if the opposite sex spends time with the other party, it is very likely that the other party will regard themselves as a glimmer of hope and transfer their emotions. If two people don't control it well, it's very easy to cross the border and turn from an interpersonal relationship into a sexual relationship.
Even if you are single and choose to be together, because this relationship has to be established under circumstances, it is not actually strong. Until the other party gets rid of the emotional pain, when you think carefully about the relationship between you, you may feel that they are not that suitable for each other, with many flaws and few advantages. It is difficult for a relationship that is temporarily resolved to continue to develop and truly go on forever. In the end, we couldn't even make friends. It was really a penny gain but a big loss.
The best relationship between opposite sexes is not for the purpose of acquisition. It is only based on the principle of appreciation and open-minded communication, so that there can be no mistakes. Only when we get along with Luoluo generously can we come down again. Don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, don't want to do anything that is out of bounds, and maintain an effective distance from the opposite sex, which is important to each other.