Explanation of fate 1. If people establish a close relationship in a social network, this is a manifestation of fate, such as between father and son, husband and wife, master and servant, they will be They believe that there is more destiny than between strangers, and it is also referred to as destiny. If two people meet often, their relationship is considered to be more fateful in traditional Chinese culture than the relationship between people who don't meet often. The usual application field of the word "fate" is mainly in the relationship between men and women, so various dating agencies like to use names such as "qingyuantianxia". 2. Buddhism says: Everything in the world comes into being due to the combination of causes and conditions. When causes and conditions gather, things exist; when causes and conditions disperse, things disappear. someone asked the hermit. The hermit thought for a while and said: fate is fate, fate is fate. The man was confused and went to ask the eminent monk. The eminent monk said: Yuan is the cultivation of the previous life. The man didn't know what his previous life was like, so he asked Buddha. The Buddha said nothing and pointed at the clouds in the sky. This man looked at the clouds rising and falling, moving east and west with the wind, so he suddenly realized: fate cannot be sought, fate is like the wind, and the wind is unpredictable. The gathering of clouds is fate, and the scattering of clouds is also fate. Emotions are like clouds, ever-changing. When the clouds rise, they are turbulent, and when the clouds fall, they are lonely and soothing. Emotional matters are like clouds gathering and dispersing, and fate is like the wind that can be met but not sought. There are many things you can ask for in the world, but fate is hard to find. In the vast sea of ??people and the glitzy world, how many people can truly find their perfect place to belong, and how many people miss the best opportunities by passing them by. Or how many people made the right choice but stood at the wrong time and place. Sometimes fate comes and goes only in one thought. Destiny is like the wind, coming is also a condition, and going is also a condition. It’s destiny to have it, and it’s destiny to not have it. Let us cherish this rare opportunity. As long as there is coffee in the world, there will also be coffee companions. The unbrewed coffee is extremely bitter; the coffee mate has no taste and is far less attractive than its white appearance. You can mix coffee and coffee mate together and gently blend with water, and it will be so fragrant. Men are coffee, and men can also be coffee partners. When two people mix together, there is a story. If it is brewed well and completely blended together, the fragrance will emit; if there is a problem with the combination, there will always be something floating on top, which is not good-looking and will taste slightly bitter. Love is a cup that can make two men live again. However, this cup does not come with a small spoon, so no one can mix two people together, and there is nothing they can do if others look anxious. We can only rely on mutual fusion to make this ordinary life exude fragrance. A poem once said: "This love can be recalled, but it was already lost at the time." If putting two people into the cup of love depends on fate, then the water that can make two people merge together is called "tolerance" . For coffee stirred without a spoon, this seems to determine the final flavor. May the fusion of you and me exude a strong fragrance. Buddha has long said: Looking back five hundred times in the past life is enough to exchange for passing by in this life! Everything has its reason, don't be surprised by this! Fate is the beginning of love between men and women in the world, from not knowing each other to getting to know each other, it makes people feel like it is destined, beautiful and straight to the heart. Because of the word "fate", many men and women in the world are driven crazy. But sometimes we are destined but not destined. This situation is the most heartbreaking. There are also those who have no predestined relationship, and those who have no predestined relationship. Of course, fate and destiny are the best endings, and you should cherish them. When two people meet, get acquainted, know each other, or fall in love with each other in the vast sea of ??people, this is fate. There is no need to wait for fate. Fate is something people strive for and creates. Only those who know how to work hard to create fate are the wisest. But how many people can catch fate and cherish it when it comes? Fate is beautiful. Fate, like love, is an ancient topic. At the same time, fate also needs careful care. Fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry. Fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love does not distinguish between distance and geography. In the sky of fate, fate will not forever fade away. Cherish your fate and be kind to your love. Don’t wait to lose your empty regret. In fact, fate has two definitions. If you think fate is destined, then your life is just an arrangement of fate! Another kind of fate is your own arrangement. If you only wait for fate to arrive, you will never get it if you don’t pursue it. If you know that you like it, it is your fate. If you don’t pursue it, you will probably Got it? Therefore, you have to rely on yourself for fate. 30% is destined by God and 70% is achieved by your own pursuit! Although organizations like "Qingyuan Tianxia" can help you find your destiny, you must ultimately work hard to seize it yourself.

Fate is the embodiment of the spirit of equality between people. It requires people who are destined to put aside secular concepts such as status, rank, education, wealth, etc., and work together to create a beautiful spiritual realm that transcends other things. Boya was a well-known official in the court at that time, and Ziqi was a woodcutter who made a living by chopping firewood. There was a huge difference in status between the two, but they used music as a matchmaker, fell in love, and became lifelong friends, which has become an eternal legend. The current French President Jacques Chirac had a close relationship with a watchmaker in his early years. Whether he was a clerk or a member of the parliament, he never broke off contact with this close friend until he became the president. His fate became a symbol of caring for the people and paying attention to society during his administration. , caring for people’s emotional resources. The fate that arises from fate and is gradually poeticized over time is especially worth cherishing. Fate belongs to the spiritual realm. It always wants to transcend the mortal world and maintain its own special spiritual realm, but it has to conflict with the secular prejudices of real social life. This conflict is sometimes very violent. People even suffer devastating mental blows as a result. Mrs. Meck was besieged and tortured by her family for supporting Tchaikovsky, and finally died in a mental hospital; Tchaikovsky kept shouting Mrs. Meck's name before his death, and at the end of "enemy" He ended his life in lamentation. It is universally recognized that Lu You and Tang Wan were in love, but the old marriage ethics prevented them from being together for life. Tang Wan passed away tragically when she was young and beautiful. Lu You lived for seventy-six years and wrote many poems in memory of Tang Wan. , on his deathbed, he dreamed of staying in Shen Yuan, leaving his regret in the world. From this, I think protecting hard-won fate is very important to our emotional life. We may be poor, but with love that shields us from the bitter cold and wind and rain, we can still gain the courage to live and have a spiritual paradise. In Buddhist thought, it talks about the cycle of cause and effect, and all evils are always caused by causes and conditions. Everything and every thought that everyone does will generate a corresponding karma. Karma can be divided into good and evil. Each karma will have an impact on people. This is the so-called cause and effect. Fate is nothing more than the result of karma between you and a certain person. Zhang Ailing has an excellent explanation of fate: Among millions of people, over millions of years, they happen to meet each other, no matter how early or late, and then Say softly: Hi, you're here too! However, this kind of fate may take several reincarnations to achieve. In ancient Chinese Taoist thought, there are theories of "nature division" and "time encounter". "Xingfen" refers to human nature and personal conduct; "time encounter" refers to acquired opportunities and time. In "Zhuangzi" annotated by Guo Xiang, he has his own unique insights into the opportunities in life. He believes that everyone is doing their own thing according to their own goals and "sexuality", but what everyone does in society will have an impact on others. And the influence of many others combined on one person becomes an opportunity for that person. He has a metaphor that everyone is both a rake and an archer; everyone can become the target of others and can also choose his own target. According to the classic records of the International Junyouhui Information Center: In the past, someone asked a hermit: What is fate? The hermit thought for a while and said: "Fate is fate, fate is fate." The man was confused and did not understand what it meant, so he went to ask a senior monk. The eminent monk said: "Destiny is the cultivation of the previous life." This man didn't understand what his previous life was like, so he asked the Buddha. The Buddha said nothing and pointed at the clouds in the sky with his finger. This man looked at the rising and falling clouds, drifting freely east and west with the wind, so he suddenly realized: Destiny is something that can be met but cannot be sought. Destiny is like the wind, which is unpredictable. The gathering of clouds is fate, and the scattering of clouds is also fate. Life is like clouds, so is life; feelings are like clouds, so is fame and fortune. Thousands of changes, turbulent when the clouds rise, lonely and soothing when the clouds fall. Emotional matters are like clouds gathering and scattering, fame and fortune matters are like clouds scattering and gathering, and fate is like the wind that can be met but not sought. There are many things you can ask for in the world, but fate is hard to find. In this vast world, how many people can truly find their perfect place to belong? How many people have missed the best opportunity by passing by? Or how many people made the right choice but stood at the wrong time and place. Sometimes fate comes and goes only in one thought. People cannot change their bloodline, and what is deep-rooted in their bones is difficult to change. Even if the influence of the day after tomorrow can allow people to have infinite room for change, it will ultimately influence people to make major decisions that affect their lives. People's innate feelings will determine their progress and retreat. Choice, this may be the original meaning of fate. Especially in matters of love, it is inevitable to be trapped by love, and it may be just a matter of a thought to leave, stay or get together.

After all, this is the interaction between two people's fate and character. Falling flowers can be intentional, flowing water can be ruthless, and fate is as invisible and unpredictable as the wind. Today, when I was revising this article "Fate", I received a message from a lay Buddhist in Suzhou saying: A 28-year-old female college student from Shanghai who studied in the United States in recent years committed suicide due to emotional matters. After rescue, Invalid died at 11am on January 28, 2008. When I learned the news, I felt sorry and sympathized with her misfortune. It was the time when she was young, beautiful and successful in her career. It was the time when her family was reunited and celebrating the festival. It was the time when the whole country was rejoicing and welcoming the Olympics. Sometimes, in such a beautiful time, she went to extremes. Why? The reason is that I can't see through my fate and understand my destiny, so I suffer terribly. I am tortured to death by this so-called empty love. When my spirit and expression cannot control my behavior, I make the wrong choice. I think This is also a kind of fate. Life is a kind of fate, and death is also a kind of fate! People in the world have a temperament, and there are crazy men and resentful women in the world. In order to get a good relationship, they have spent all their years suffering, and they sigh in the hesitation of gains and losses. They live in a hurry, and ask what is love in the world? Ask the world what is destiny? In fact, fate is like the wind, coming and going are also fate. It’s fate that you’ve got it, and it’s fate that you haven’t gotten it yet. No matter how beautiful your dream was, giving up is laziness, and forcing is not a means. Last night, a friend who was sad that happy times were passing away too quickly told me that the close friends we used to be with no longer communicated with each other, and he was very sad. I said that instead of feeling sad, it is better to change my mind and relax. Meeting is fate, missing is also fate; knowing each other is fate, being unfamiliar is also fate; friends are fate, and enemies are also fate; love is fate, and separation is also fate. Dependents are a fate, so are husbands and wives; relatives are a fate, and so are neighbors; fighting and scolding are a fate, and so is harmony. Believing in the Buddha is a fate, and reciting the name of the Buddha is also a fate; being at home is a fate, and becoming a monk is also a fate; becoming a Buddha is a fate, and becoming a demon is also a fate. The peace of the country and the people are the fate, as are natural and man-made disasters; world peace is the fate, as is war and violence; social harmony is the fate, and so is disorder. Good karma and bad karma never come together, and adverse karma and good karma never separate. As the saying goes, if there is fate, we will gather; if there is no fate, we will disperse! Destiny comes and goes, so don't force it. Whatever is in your destiny will eventually come to you, and if you don't have it in your destiny, don't force it. The melons picked by force are not sweet, and the melons that are not yours will not last long. Fate is not determined by fate, nor is it static. Fate is based on your own behavior and can change at any time. How to change it? If you don't do any evil and do all the good deeds, your bad destiny will turn into good destiny, and if you don't have any destiny, you will have destiny. If you don't do any evil, if you don't do all the good deeds, your good destiny will turn into bad destiny, and your good destiny will turn into bad destiny. Whether it is good or evil, it is all your own doing! You and I are destined to know each other. We make friends with smiles on our faces. We give joy to create good karma. You treat me wrongly and cherish our karma. Follow me and go against me to eliminate evil fate. Birth, old age, illness, and death are all caused by earthly conditions. Good or bad results are all caused by conditions. Compassion, joy, and generosity lead to the cultivation of Buddhism. Life is short, passing by in the blink of an eye. Living in a world of sentient beings, we have to go with the flow, not casually, we have to go with the flow, not cling to it! Recite one more words of Amitabha to achieve your own destiny. Anyone who can read this article is a destined person! Namo Amitabha...

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