1. I know what I want, and even better what I don’t want. A friend has been single for a long time. She said that she knows what she wants and what she doesn’t want. What she wants is a relationship with tacit understanding. She doesn't need to be soft on purpose, her boyfriend can understand that she is pretending to be strong. She doesn't need to say it, her boyfriend can read her emotions and know whether she is happy or unhappy. But unfortunately, none of the boys she met had such ability. They don't want to take the time to read her mind or think about what she needs. I would only give her flowers and chocolates on Valentine's Day, but I didn't know that she was allergic to pollen and didn't like sweets. A friend said that she knew herself too well and what she didn’t want. Falling in love with such a boy will only make her feel that the two hearts are far apart, instead of relying on each other and warming each other. 2. Love should be about laughing together, not torturing each other. I have always liked watching "The Battle of Love". There are many cases in which one guest loves to play too much, while the other wants to restrict the other person's freedom. But in fact, there is nothing wrong with loving to have fun, and of course, there is nothing wrong with choosing stability. Falling in love should be about laughing together. If he loves to play, make friends, and go clubbing, and you happen to be the same, then you can live a life of constant joy, and you will also think that the people around you are suitable for playing with you. If he loves to live at home, loves to buy and cook his own food, and loves to stay at home in a daze, and you happen to do the same, then you can live a warm and secure life, and you will also feel that the people around you are suitable to accompany you until you grow old. There is nothing wrong with either kind of love. What is wrong is choosing someone who doesn’t want to play with you, choosing someone who doesn’t want to be in a daze with you. It’s getting harder and harder for us to fall in love, and maybe that’s why. What we want is a free and suitable love, not being bound by someone, not torturing each other. 3. If you only want a moment of happiness, just find a partner. Why do you want to fall in love? You don’t just want a moment of happiness, you also want a long-lasting companionship, and you also want support without hesitation. But many times, a boyfriend can only satisfy the first item, but cannot give him companionship and support. This is the reason why some girls are unwilling to fall in love. They think that if they only want to be happy, then they can just find a boyfriend. And if you still want the other two things, and you also want someone who can treat you well and accompany you through one difficulty after another in your life, then you have to choose carefully. Unless you can really find such a person, before that, you will never give in. 3 reasons why it is becoming more and more difficult for girls to fall in love 2. Girls’ love skills and experiences 1. Don’t hold an absolute attitude. Two people should have a good attitude towards love. They don’t have to get married. If it’s not suitable, you can say goodbye. Women have this mentality. , you can not pour too much into your love, just love him like this! Let him let the rest take its course. 2. Leave room for talking and room for talking to each other. This not only leaves room for yourself, but also gives room for the other person to step down. Only women who can talk are loved by men. In this way, men can get along with you easily and comfortably. You don’t need to be very eloquent. But learn to show mercy. 3. Learn to understand. To love a woman, you need to miss her constantly, contact her and make her happy. To love a man, you only need to understand him and support him. A woman who understands him is extremely important. If you love him, you must be more tolerant. This kind of relaxation is also an invisible support.