2. associate with some useless people in front of you. People with status and resources want to associate, but in the eyes of others, you may not be an onion. The relationship between classmates developed in that era when it was never clear who was long and who was short, and later became a long-term social support. And those who only associate with useful friends look more like villains.
3. Pay attention to social differences. Some people say that I have never had friends of civil servants, professors or investors in stocks, so I should consciously go to occasions, lectures and activities where these people may appear more often to associate with these friends.
4. Don't make promises to others casually. Yes means 100% can do it. A clear commitment can reduce your troubles and let others know how to deal with you.
5. Be close to knowledge or don't know people you don't like. In this unknown, you may find that these people and things are actually your favorite. If you choose ten books, you choose three books you don't like and seven books you like. If you can persist in this way, you will keep an open mind about the future.
6. Contact old friends if you have nothing to do. The rule of socializing is to find someone to accumulate feelings and stick to each other when nothing happens. Finding someone for something is employing people, and finding someone for nothing is emotional investment.
7. Do something that is low-cost but makes people feel that you care. You don't have to buy 3 thousand yuan moon cakes for Mid-Autumn Festival. Even the simplest way to report your situation is better than forwarding customized messages that others have already received.
8. Organize parties to expand relationships. The husband of a family has her husband's friends, the wife has her friends, and the children have children's friends. If everyone's friends bring friends to get together, they can expand social relations many times, develop friendship with their families, increase the topic of * * *, and create human resources that they can talk to when something happens.
9. Pay attention to your first impression. Nowadays, there are not as many opportunities for communication between people as before, but in fact, it is difficult for people to have a second interaction, so why should we seriously consider my image like our interviews, meetings and forums? The first is to attract people's attention, and the second is to make people pay positive attention to me. Pay full attention to the modification of images.
10. Be sure to use a business card. People need a communication link after meeting for the first time, and business cards play such a role. Don't print your mobile phone number on your business card. You wrote a number in front of him, and the way you wrote it shows that you have special respect for him.
1 1. Do public welfare with friends. In addition to helping each other, it is very important for friends to use our friendship and relationship to help the third and fourth people, so that we can realize the happiness of helping others, serving others and creating value for more people.