1. Food

For China, a country with big foodies, what topic is easier to open up the conversation than food? Delicious food not only pleases the taste buds, but also the hearing. Talk about your favorite food with your crush! But remember, the purpose of chatting about this topic is to know what he likes to eat, so that you can use this as a basis for various invitations in the future, rather than describing endlessly how many world cuisines you have eaten.

2. Travel

Besides eating and playing, this is the most desirable lifestyle for modern people. Nowadays, people have been to some tourist cities more or less. At this time, you can use this to open up the conversation! Talk about the cities you have been to and hear what they think about a certain city. This is a great topic and you can hear their preferences. For example, if he yearns for prosperity, then he will have a special love for Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou; if he likes nature, he will talk to you about Guilin in Yunnan and the famous Five Mountains. From the topic of travel, you can learn about their personality so that you can understand them better.

3. Entertainment

Entertainment is also a good topic, and it is also the easiest topic to understand a person. If he is a loving person, then his entertainment must be with small animals and various plants! If he is a homeboy or homegirl, his entertainment must be in front of the computer! And many topics can be derived from entertainment. If you like listening to songs, you can learn about their favorite music style. If you like watching movies, you can learn about their taste in movies. Next time, you can send them a message An invitation to watch a movie!

4. Friends

As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, and friends around you are naturally a good way to get to know them. Chat about their friends and your friends, maybe you will have the same friends as you! If he is willing to share with you things between himself and his friends, whether it is happiness or sadness, it means that you are very important in his heart!

5. Work or study

Work or study status is a good topic. Whether in school or in society, there will always be some happy moments or unhappy moments. experience, listen to what he has to say! When he talks about happy things, laugh with him. When he talks about unhappy things, it's your turn to make him happy!

6. Family

If possible, talk about your family too! Maybe you are also getting to know your future family members in advance! It's even better if he or she has siblings and you don't! You can express your admiration for him or her later, and I believe he will be very happy in his heart! If you are the only one who has brothers and sisters, then you must not mind sharing your brothers and sisters with your TA***!