Family education plays an important role in children's growth. As a parent, what have you learned? The following are "4 articles on family education experience for parents" compiled by me for your reference only. Welcome to read. Parents are the first teachers of their children. Everything we say and do has a profound influence on children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are all objective conditions for a child's healthy growth. Let children establish an independent personality from an early age, and then pay attention to their mental health development. Although children are very young, they have a strong sense of self-esteem. Adults' words and deeds are always in their eyes and kept in mind, especially in front of outsiders' unkind accusations or complaints will bring spiritual harm to children. After listening to this lecture, I have some experiences to share with you.

First, it is very necessary to develop a good study and living habit, which should be reflected in the details of life.

To have good habits, we should first let children get used to thinking, give them enough freedom, and don't die too hard, otherwise there will be spiritual rebellion. We should start from the small things when children are young, carefully observe them, and find out the bad behaviors in their lives in time, and correct them. Give affirmation and encouragement to good behaviors in children's life, make them become habits, and let children study and live with good habits.

second, do a good job in communication with children

parents should pay attention to scientific methods in communication with their children: first, they should be good at listening. Only by listening to the child's heart and knowing what the child thinks, cares about and needs can we give the child targeted care and help, and it will also make communication easier in the future. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent to his heart's content and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, not only will the child be more willing to talk to you, but also his language expression ability can be improved. Secondly, parents should learn to be friends with their children. If parents are always on top, it is difficult to make intimate friends with their children, and there is no real communication. This requires parents to talk with their children in a child's mind and in a language that children can understand. Furthermore, be patient. There are huge differences in age, psychology, thoughts and feelings between parents and children, and understanding needs a process. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.

Third, cultivate children to read a lot

Reading is a learning method to broaden children's horizons and gain knowledge. It is also an entertainment that brings infinite fun to children. Therefore, we must first create a strong reading atmosphere for our children. Make reading a way of life for him, and let children think that reading is a very happy thing. Therefore, at home, there is always a fixed time to read books every night, no matter what kind of books, bring him a head and create a learning atmosphere. Slowly, children also like reading on the internet. Reading has not only become a living habit, but also become our mentor.

By listening to this lecture, I benefited a lot, and also deeply understood the importance of family education, a big topic of educating children. Especially in the cultivation of children's character, it is not in place. At home, controlling children's behavior requires my consent or approval before they dare to do it, which seriously hinders his imagination. In addition, there is impatience. Because of impatience and lack of patience, he not only spoke ill of the child again and again, but even beat him. When he saw the helpless and wronged eyes of the child, he came to his senses. He was just, just a child. Experts say it well: once a parent, always a teacher, so from now on, start from yourself and every little thing, let the child have an independent personality and a good habit, communicate with the child fairly, let him grow up happily and healthily, and let him become a knowledgeable person and a useful person to society. Experience of family education Parents II < P > The education of children is the most concerned and confusing problem for parents. After listening to Professor xx's lecture today, I fully realized the importance of family education. Educating children should start with parents' and family's education. Parents should actively cultivate children to form good habits from childhood while setting an example. Children's plasticity is strong, and childhood is the golden age of education. Grasping this important period is very important for a child and even a family. Through listening to today's lecture, I have the following experiences:

First, parents should pay attention to family education

Parents are the first teachers of children, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can we get the best educational effect. Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's character, conduct, will and interest, etc., and children are easy to accept and grow. However, in the two days of the weekend, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, have no regular study and life, and forget the good habits cultivated in school for five days. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that can shelter from the wind and rain, and become pillars of society.

second, parents should set an example

children need to develop good study and living habits, which are most influenced by parents. You told your children not to throw clothes around, but you threw them on the sofa when you got home, and you kept telling them to tidy up their clothes. Will the children do as you say? Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games on the Internet, but when their children are doing their homework, their parents are staring at the loud TV programs or sitting at the computer and playing all kinds of games selflessly. What will the children think and feel balanced? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it, first of all, they should not do it themselves. The best way is to accompany the child to do homework, or when the child is doing homework, parents read books, read newspapers and do some housework quietly, so that the child feels that his or her parents are not at leisure when he or she is doing homework, so that the child will have a sense of balance and be willing to do homework.

Third, strengthen communication with children

Parents should communicate with their children more. Even if they are busy, parents should spare some time to talk, chat and tell stories to their children. In the communication between parents and children, we should pay attention to scientific methods: first, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to the child's heart and knowing what the child thinks, cares about and needs can we give the child targeted care and help, and it will also make communication easier in the future. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent to his heart's content and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, children will be willing to talk to you, and parents can learn more about their inner world.

Fourth, learn to appreciate your children

Appreciation leads to success and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can find the advantages of children with loving eyes and point out and correct their shortcomings in the right way, "You can do it" and "You are great", with the encouragement of parents, many children will change and grow up in happiness. Don't criticize your child because he didn't get a high score in one exam, but encourage him to say "he did well in the exam" and "he did well in the exam", help him analyze the reasons why he didn't do it right or didn't do it, find a way to do it, and don't be helpless when he encounters such a problem next time. Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence. The secret lies in that it removes the huge stone of inferiority that weighs on children's hearts, so the potential of children erupts like a volcano.

5. Create a good learning environment for children

The environment can easily change a person, especially for children. Some people say that a child's brain is a fertile land, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. From this we can see the importance of environment to children's growth. Husband and wife's love and family harmony will make children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home. The affection between parents and children can't be replaced by any affection. Parents should cherish this affection. A harmonious family has a positive and upward influence on children. Only when children live in a loving family will they have the interest and motivation to learn, and they will know how to love others and society. Parents should often read books and newspapers, so that children can feel that reading books and newspapers is a very happy thing. After a long time, children will naturally like learning.

Children are the only parents. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and cultivate their children well. They don't waste their time asking for great achievements in the future. They just want their children to grow up healthily and happily, have a self-confident and self-reliant mentality, have an independent personality, be full of interest in learning, be full of enthusiasm for life, and be full of love for others and society. Experience of family education Parents III

I have been educated by my parents at first, and now I am educating my daughter. My life experience tells me that parents are the teachers of children's life, family education is the foundation of all education, and parents' influence on children is one of the factors that cannot be ignored in their growth. This influence is subtle and lasting, which determines their development direction and affects their life. Now on the issue of family education, talk about my experience.

First, give children a harmonious home

The healthy growth of children is most inseparable from a peaceful and safe family environment. First of all, a harmonious and peaceful family atmosphere gives him a sense of psychological security and happiness. To make children develop in an all-round way, a harmonious family is very important, and a warm family is established. Only in this way can they have confidence and interest in learning. At home, they should not only give their children a harmonious and happy learning space, but also cultivate their basic life skills as much as possible, with self-care ability, will to overcome difficulties and love. Thirdly, take time out to accompany children to study and play. Cultural knowledge is important, but games are essential for children. Parents should let their children get the joy of success in learning and games, so that children can fully find fun in learning and games. Let children feel the happiness of living in the family. Give children a happy growth space.

Second, love children, respect children and be their bosom friends

In life, we should respect children, treat children as equals, establish a relationship of mutual trust with children and be their bosom friends. Only in this way can we win their trust. Parents should love their children, maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. Which parent will not love his own children? But some parents' love can't be accepted and recognized by children, so I often give my sensible daughter a kind hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive persuasion and a small gift, which will make the child naturally feel the love given by her parents and enhance her trust in her parents. At this time, education is easy to implement and easy for her to accept. Therefore, our parents should cultivate their children's good behavior habits with love.

Third, the premise of good communication between parents and children is listening

Parents should put down their condescending posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should concentrate on listening and ask your children from time to time: "Is there anything interesting at school? What classes did you have at school today? What did you learn? Wait a minute. Whenever I ask my daughter this question, she is always very excited to report everything to me. When she expresses her views on things, I will listen carefully, discuss with her and analyze right and wrong, truth and falsehood, beauty and ugliness. I think this is very important for cultivating children's quality. Listening is an art and a kind of learning.

Fourth, encourage children to dare to meet challenges

Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so we should cultivate children's sense of competition and the spirit of dare to meet challenges from an early age. In study, I often encourage my daughter to say: You are great, you are so smart that you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. Dad admires you. She is very happy when she listens, and it also mobilizes her enthusiasm for learning. When she encounters difficulties, I constantly cheer her up.

V. Cultivating children's adaptability

Since ancient times, it has been the basic ability to survive. In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability can survive, develop better and move towards the other side of success. From private kindergartens to public kindergartens, from kindergartens to Mei Chuan Experimental Primary School, to the primary school attached to Wuxue, as well as the Red Doudou Dance Center and Guzheng Class, the daughter has to constantly deal with different people and make friends with different people. There is a lot of helplessness, but it does exercise the child and enhance her adaptability. It can be said that it is also gratifying!

seven, learn to be tolerant and tolerant

Tolerance is a beautiful scenery. A person who can tolerate and tolerate other people's shortcomings and mistakes is indeed a noble person. Such a person is a beautiful scenery in the world. Tolerance is a kind of ability. People are half angels and half demons. It is not easy to tolerate and hurt others. Our hearts are like a container. Hatred will be squeezed out. Only by constantly educating our children with love, making their hearts full of love, and treating people or things around them with tolerance, can hatred have no place and develop an open-minded mind, so that we can get more friends, get more help, and make ourselves grow continuously.

VIII. Allow children to defend themselves when something happens

Defending themselves is also a right. Some parents like children who are obedient and obedient, and they will do what their parents say. Once the child is found to have done something wrong, he will scold and beat the child indiscriminately. Children are not allowed to defend themselves, which will not only make them convinced, but also foster a kind of resistance, lie and shirk their responsibilities. Children's defense itself is a process of using language in an orderly way and also a process of communication between parents. If parents can consciously find some questions to argue with their children, their thinking ability and oral ability can be well trained.

IX. Treat children's academic performance correctly

Academic performance is a means to check students' learning, not an end. Parents should have a correct understanding of their children's examination results. Therefore, when parents receive their children's exam transcripts, they should not only look at the scores, but also consider them from the perspective of understanding their children's study and living conditions at school. There are many factors that determine grades. As parents, they should help their children analyze the causes of unsatisfactory grades and learn the lessons of failure.