How much your best friend sacrifices for you depends on the relationship between you and your best friend. Because the depth of the relationship between two people will determine the extent to which two people sacrifice for each other. Why do you say that? Because making friends is a matter of two people, and I decided to be good to you after you were good to me. Sometimes feelings are also a kind of "thing" of reciprocity, which requires us to pay in return. At home, if you tell your mother that so-and-so is really nice, it's good for me. Mother will say that you paid for it. We can't trust the story on TV too much, and believe that two people can be good enough to give up the world. The example of TV series is to put all the opportunities and coincidences in our lives on one person. This story is pure fiction! !
But what I want to say is that even though girlfriends will pay for you, few girlfriends will devote all their efforts to a certain girlfriend. The reason is simple, that is, people are selfish, and they all know to think of themselves first after something big happens. Some people will be curious to ask: then there is no girlfriend in the world who is willing to devote herself wholeheartedly to her girlfriend? Of course, you can't say that, because you can't talk too much at any time, and you should leave enough room for yourself in everything. I can't deny it all, but one thing is very worthy of my affirmation: people are selfish.
I also naively thought that as long as others were kind to me, I would devote myself wholeheartedly. Until one day, it was when I was in high school. I love playing with boys since I was a child, because I always think that girls are more scheming, and intrigue all day makes me very uncomfortable. Since then, I have met a lot of boys inexplicably, and female friends have become more and more scarce. One day, a good friend and I quarreled in class, and after the teacher found out, we went to the office. When the teacher asked why, he quickly said that I provoked him first. I didn't say a word, but he was defending himself. I played with him for three years! I have always regarded him as my best friend! Until one day he said to me: You are too simple, and you can't be kind to others wholeheartedly in the future, because people are selfish. You see, we play so well, but I only trust you 9%, and I'll keep the rest. When it comes to the key, I may sacrifice you to save myself. You, too, can't trust me completely, okay?
after listening to his words, I suddenly seem to have grown up and learned a lot. Now that he has a girlfriend, we are still very good friends. Thank you for letting me know that few people in the world are willing to sacrifice for you, even your closest relatives, including your parents, your brothers and sisters.
it's still you who devote yourself wholeheartedly!