First, it takes more than ten years to idolize. Children are not secular, but indulged by their parents. Andy Lau is very handsome, and people are also very dedicated when filming TV dramas. Although a few years ago, many stars in the entertainment circle chose hidden marriage in order not to lose their supporting audience. However, even though Andy Lau was in a state of hidden marriage at that time, there were almost no scandals as frequently as other male stars.
Andy Lau is a male star with a good reputation, so Yang Lijuan, as an ordinary person, was deeply attracted by Andy Lau, a man with great personality charm. Ordinary people like the performances of stars, and more often, they will watch movies and TV dramas in which stars participate, and the songs sung by stars will be imitated, but Yang Lijuan's love is so different.
Yang Lijuan doesn't care about his academic status, and he doesn't want to work to earn money. Instead, he paid close attention to Andy Lau's movements. When he saw Andy Lau's concert in which city or where he attended the event, Yang Lijuan would immediately try his best to fly to which city, thinking of getting in close contact with Andy Lau.
If they are teenagers, it is understandable to say that they are immature and inexperienced, but Yang Lijuan is an adult, so his reckless behavior is beyond the normal logical thinking of normal people.
At this stage, if parents can stop her, maybe Yang Lijuan will stop. At this critical moment, Yang Lijuan's parents also obeyed her wishes in various ways, and even sold their house to support their daughter Yang Lijuan in chasing Andy Lau. Yang Lijuan's wayward behavior and thoughts are bound to bring all kinds of burdens to her later life.
Second, you can only be responsible for your own life and have nothing to do with them. When Yang Lijuan's father saw that his daughter was desperate, there was no hope of idolization, and he didn't have any financial ability to help her do idolization. In times of economic difficulties, Yang Lijuan's old father only knew that he was eager to love his daughter, but he didn't know that this kind of love and connivance also harmed his daughter and the whole family. Yang Lijuan's father even offered to sell one of his kidneys to support his daughter to continue her idol journey. Fortunately, Yang Lijuan is not crazy enough to stop his father from selling his kidney.
However, in the face of such a family and daughter, the father may be at a loss, or want to use his life to fight for another idol opportunity for his daughter. He did something that was difficult for everyone to understand and accept. He chose to end his life, and wrote a suicide note at the last moment to condemn Andy Lau. Although Yang Lijuan's ending is very sympathetic, her parents also have unshirkable responsibilities. Father's way of solving problems can be seen at a glance, that is, dealing with problems in an extreme and self-righteous way.
However, the old father didn't educate his daughter. Life is precious. Everyone's life has its own meaning. You can't follow others. Moreover, one's own life can only be responsible for oneself, and others will not pay for the suffering caused by mankind.
Thirdly, I don't know what belief supported Yang Lijuan's persistent idolization at that time. If this perseverance is used in study and work, then she will be an excellent woman.
If a person can persist in doing one thing day after day for many years, it is also very powerful. If Yang Lijuan can devote himself to any industry or any kind of research with this spirit and energy and worship the Andy Lau incident, then Yang Lijuan can also become an excellent student or an elite in the workplace.
Instead of letting my mother linger on her sickbed like this, she can only earn a meager salary and live in a low-rent house with 80 yuan. Fortunately, after all the gloom, there are still things to be thankful for. This is Yang Lijuan's total sobriety. She admitted that she would never chase Andy Lau again in the afterlife. Compared with this, it is also a confession of her previous childish behavior.
Conclusion: Yang Lijuan's father chose to end his life because of his daughter's idolization. You know, loving children doesn't always realize their wishes. This kind of love can only be called doting, even harming children. A lot of things are irreversible. Not filial to his father, Yang Lijuan now works hard to earn money to support his mother. I hope her own life will have a chance to bloom.