Powerful people, like pearls, no longer have the same texture as sand, nor will they be mixed with sand, but become jewels and put them in front of gorgeous windows.
Everyone who has the ability has a bumpy road. Really capable people, in fact, in life, popularity will not be very good.
Liu Yu wrote in Send You a Bullet: "Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while others are just a sneeze."
The more capable people are, the more difficult it is to blend in with others, because the levels are different. People at different levels will have different views and attitudes, so it is extremely difficult to blend in. The higher the level, the fewer friends you can make.
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A capable person knows how to make high-quality friends.
A capable person has a pair of discerning eyes, can find suitable friends and know how to make high-quality friends.
Wei Xiaobao in Jordan chan's Duke of Lushan seems to be careless, but when you think about it, the friends he makes are either affectionate or capable.
The emperor asked him to attack Shenlong Island. He thinks that a bearded general named Zhao Liangdong is a piece of material that can be made. After finding him among the people, treat him like a guest and treat him like a brother.
Zhao Liangdong made many brilliant achievements when he led troops to fight, and he was a real artist. This man was later reused by the emperor, and the hero had a place to play.
Wei Xiaobao knows how to make good use of people and can make high-quality friends, which is of great help to him. This is his greatest advantage.
It is a great skill to be knowledgeable and know how to use people.
Capable people will stay away from low-quality social interaction and make friends with others.
Capable people will not make useless friends, value loyalty, value character and talent. We will not treat each other as true friends easily, but once we choose to trust each other, we will give each other a chance to cooperate sincerely and achieve a win-win situation.
In fact, a capable person does not have many real friends. He knows how to separate himself from complicated interpersonal relationships, and choose someone who is really worthy of his association to make deep-seated friends, so that he can become a help in life.
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Capable people tend to "make enemies"
Capable people often make enemies easily because of life and work, but they have no friends.
Andy in Ode to Joy parachuted into Lao Tan's company and became the president. However, her reputation at work is not good, and her employees complain a lot. They all think that she makes people around her "stressed".
I made several work plans, all of which were rejected. Another employee said that he had a heart attack because of work fatigue. Andy suddenly became a hot topic and a target of public criticism.
Andy's Excellence has made many people with average qualifications feel the crisis. You can't "comfortably" muddle along in your post. You can only stand against Andy, let her go, and then you can go back to everything.
Capable people are decisive, direct and efficient, and it is easy to "make enemies", so it is difficult for anyone to make friends with them sincerely.
Excellent people with ability will always face the state of "outshining others".
Capable people, because their ability is too strong and their gas field is too big, often give others a feeling of being inaccessible and giving people a sense of alienation. For this reason, there are few friends.
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Capable people have no energy to make friends.
A capable person, with strong ability, understands the importance of learning and will put all his energy into his work. They have no time to catch up, time will be tight, and they have been fighting for their goals.
In the "Don't come, it's okay" unit of "The Most Beautiful Retrograde", Dr. Yue has a very interesting nickname called "Afraid of Cold".
He never explains his behavior too much, is afraid of interacting with people and is not good at words. But he has a fiery heart and spends all his energy and time saving people.
The more a person knows, the stronger his ability and the heavier his responsibility.
Yue spent more time on more meaningful things, lost boring entertainment and devoted himself to his work, becoming an unsung hero in an ordinary post.
Capable people will spend more time to improve themselves, work and do meaningful things.
People who are truly capable will focus more on their own careers, study topics of interest to them, and concentrate on what they should do.
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Concluding remarks
Excellent people, it is difficult to have the same language with the public. For example, many people watch a movie in the cinema, and everyone's analysis views are quite different.
The more thoroughly people live, the more they will see through the essence of things at once. It's as if you are still nervously following the drama, and the other party has guessed the ending according to the context of the event.
People who are truly capable are actually unpopular.
There are only a few people who are really capable, smart and know how to make good friends.
There is a saying that "it is too cold at the top", and truly capable people can easily become the enemies of everyone. The more capable people are, the easier it is to be worshipped on the surface, and the easier it is to wear small shoes or play tricks in private.
People with strong ability often disdain to play tricks and are unwilling to associate with people with low quality. More is to focus on what you want to do, give full play to your life value, and live up to your mission and youth.
If you feel that you have no friends around you, don't be sad. Maybe you are getting better and better, going further and further.
Not many friends, but good. On the road of life, being yourself is the greatest success.