First of all, if you are so accommodating, you must not know how to refuse. "Learn to say no and learn to refuse." Secondly, your weak personality is also a big obstacle. Because I am weak, afraid of being beaten, scolded and bullied. Therefore, the fundamental way is to improve their own strength, such as skills and culture, such as good eloquence, good communication or better technology than others. In the end, one person has more money and more rights than others. When you are strong, you will naturally have confidence. Finally, you will start to exclude your disadvantaged groups and gradually rise to exclude people at the same level. Finally, your character occasionally dares to challenge people who are taller than yourself to say "no"! As for how to enhance personal strength, it is very simple. Learn eloquence or other cultures, exercise, and then earn money and make friends through practice to gain rights. With confidence, naturally this will be solved. Also exercise your tone and soul, and dare to say no to those unfairness and oppression. Best wishes to this friend.

Nuo Nuo's passive character is not confident enough from the psychological point of view. As long as you have confidence, you can change this character. Ways to build self-confidence: 1 Discover your strengths and strengths. 2. Contact and associate with confident people. If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. If you are always with people who are pessimistic and disappointed, you will also be depressed. If you often come into contact with open-minded and confident people, you will certainly become such a person. Make more friends with ambitious and confident people. 3. Self-psychological suggestion, constantly carry out positive psychological reinforcement on yourself and avoid negative reinforcement on yourself. When you encounter difficulties, you must not give up. 4. Establish a confident external image.

Because I didn't have self-confidence, I became a good person. I can only constantly strengthen myself, enrich myself and make myself stronger. When I am with someone who is better than myself, I will unconsciously feel that he is right, and he dare not refute anything he says. And with weak people, you dare to speak freely. Even, for example, seeing young people picking up garbage on the road, even they will unconsciously despise it. A good man is a sign of weakness. When you are strong, you will be confident. Come on, kid.