To be honest, netizens’ outpourings undoubtedly tell us another reality, that is, women are no longer just domestic, they have more and more opportunities to contact the outside world, and men on the Internet are always eyeing them like tigers. Lurking somewhere like a hunter. There are many like-minded people among them, and after a few exchanges, they can quickly conclude a deal - cheating. This shows how convenient the Internet has been for female dating. But no matter what, today, when men can be forgiven for cheating, women cheating is not an unspeakable thing. In fact, the reason why a woman can forgive a man for cheating is because a woman is an emotional animal. When she still loves the man, she will try her best to tolerate everything about him.

Based on what netizens have said, I am afraid that your cheating is also due to your husband. Because he is busy with his career all day long, he neglects the warmth he gives you and cannot meet your normal physiological needs. Over time, it will cause you to develop... The mentality of resentment may make you "fall out of the wall". It is said that in today's society, cheating between men and women is no longer a big deal. Both parties just get what they want. As soon as they turn around, everyone will be clear about it. Men become indifferent, women become unpretentious, and between men and women, sex and love are separated as much as possible. Otherwise, how can we interpret what young people often say: "It doesn't matter if it lasts forever, it only matters what you once had."

Although this is true, people are still far more tolerant of married men than they are of married women. This is because in people's traditional concept, men flirting with women is a romantic problem, and it is even promoted by some extreme people as a sign of charm. At the same time, a man's cheating can be explained as relieving work pressure, playing on the spot, unspoken rules of the mall, a man's desire to conquer, etc. There are many excuses, as if it is a last resort, and even if his wife finds out, he will still complain. The problem of women cheating is bigger, and it will be raised to a question of character and morality. Therefore, when cheating occurs, more men are tolerated, and more women are criticized.

We must talk about the traditional marriage concepts of Chinese people. As we all know, the concept of marriage formed in China's feudal society for thousands of years has always affected women's lives. All women's behavioral norms, including sexual behavior norms, are formulated by men. The restriction on the scope of women's activities is to "never leave the first door and never step forward at the second door." Coupled with the requirements of "three obediences and four virtues", all women have lifelong obligations of "loyalty and obedience" to men. To this day, the marriage concept of "if you marry a chicken, follow the chicken, if you marry a dog, follow the dog" still dominates them. Therefore, under the requirements of traditional morality, no matter how miserable the married life is, women can only endure the misfortune of marriage for a long time. This is probably the reason why women who cheat often end up in divorce.

In short, no one is perfect, and everyone will make mistakes. The key depends on the subjective consciousness of making mistakes. You couldn't bear the loneliness and cheated. Although it was subjective and intentional, it was still a "passionate fault" after all, and it was not as serious as imagined. The problem is that there are many men like this around us. Once their wives lose their virginity, they think that they have suffered great shame and humiliation, and it is difficult to accept the so-called "cuckold". However, having said that, whether you are a man or a woman, promiscuity is always immoral. Even though your marriage has come to an end, you still have to learn from it. It's a pity that most people will be confused in life, especially in emotions. When they wake up, it's too late...