About work
Looking back on my twenty-seven years of work, I have never left my main business without teaching staff, and I have also tried various sideline businesses.
Teacher Fan Deng said that if you turn your passion into work, then you have never worked. In the first twenty years of my teacher's work, I only regarded work as a means of making a living, and I was also a teacher. I didn't get happiness from the lofty profession of human soul engineer. And when I started studying psychology and practicing myself, everything around me began to change. I began to understand students, and I realized that it was not easy for problem students. Behind every problem children, there must be parents with problems. They are victims. I began to tolerate them and guide them. The change of children is slow, but the relationship with children has changed. Entering the classroom is no longer a painful thing for me. A class will end in forty minutes. When I hear the bell, I often wonder where the time has gone. I began to love my job. Teaching before educating people at work has guided me and my children to become friends, erasing the fog of their confused life.
There was a happy thing in the past year. I took part in the competition in the district. Theoretically, I don't need to participate, because I'm about to retire, and it's useless to give opportunities to young people. Taking part in the competition is a thankless thing, because it takes a lot of energy to prepare, and it will be a shame not to win the prize. So my colleague refused to attend. I'm in a good mood, so I'm leaving.
In the process of preparing lessons, I was forced to study and think about how to make the class wonderful. I also found various resources to prepare lessons. After two months of competition, I have pressure and anxiety, but I also enjoy my growth. What I care about most is my growth. I don't care much about ranking. I practiced "no hurry, no rashness, no shame" early. Most of the teachers' questions were so embarrassing that I finally got a good result, which was a happy ending.
As for work, if you don't like it at present, but you can't change it, and you have to live on it, then try to challenge yourself and do better, and maybe you will like it slowly. People often like something because it will bring a sense of accomplishment and constantly challenge the process of achieving a sense of accomplishment. You may like it.
Buffett said that if you can't find a job that pays you in your sleep, you will work until you die.
Most of the work has been done, and there is nothing wrong with not doing it. Simple repetition can easily be replaced by others, such is the job of exchanging health and time for income. I spend all my spare time doing sideline business to strengthen myself or get income through channels, hoping to realize my freedom in life one day.
About making friends
In the past two years, I have participated in many offline reading clubs. I have met many friends with weak links. Even so, I feel very rewarding.
If you have an apple and I have an apple, exchange, each of us still has only one apple. If you have an idea, so do I. Let's exchange, each of us has two ideas. Therefore, even friends with weak links will gain a lot in the moment of communication. Increase your vision, enlarge your pattern and realize your many possibilities.
A friend who has the deepest influence on me, everyone will cry after hearing her story, but her strong, capable and grateful heart makes me believe that there is no good family or bad family, everything happens in a neutral way, and good and bad are between your thoughts. Often seemingly difficult things bring you more growth and make people stronger. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, and I have spent the most difficult days. Every day after that is happy and worthy of gratitude. Happiness is often based on pain. Without experiencing the pain of life, you will not feel the sweetness of life.
About love
Tagore said: The greatest thing in the world is love. Love is also an ability. The most terrible thing is that parents' inappropriate love for their children will hurt. Parents, to be a good parent, must study.
The most important love is to love yourself. Only when you have the ability to love yourself can you love your partner, your children, your parents, your family and your friends. ...
Love yourself, maybe you understand it as cooking good food for yourself and buying brand-name bags or beautiful clothes and shoes. This is just shallow love. To love yourself is to allow yourself not to blame yourself and not to dislike your incompetence when you fail. Accept your own good and bad, allow yourself to start over if you fail, allow yourself to grow up slowly, and don't force yourself with the success of others and make yourself anxious. See your growth, see your efforts, and like yourself at any time.
Mother Teresa's love is like the love of the sun, which shines on the earth and embraces everything. This is the greatest love in the world.
Love is a kind of ability and also needs to be learned.
Whether it is work, making friends or falling in love, it will change at different stages of life. The only constant is that we must learn and grow all our lives, become better ourselves and be reliable people.
In 2022, continue to work hard, make friends seriously and love yourself. I believe everything will get better and better!