The standard of making friends is simple: observe their relationship with their families, and don't expect a person who is unfilial to his parents and irresponsible to his family to become friends. Observe their relationship with colleagues around them, and don't expect a person who often belittles others and exalts himself to become a friend. Making friends is mutual, and only people who are more caring can become bosom friends. Insincere person: Making friends doesn't even have the minimum sincerity, which is hypocritical to you. There must be something useful to you about this kind of person.

Flatterer: On the surface, this kind of person will be warm to you, love you and speak well of you. In fact, they all know what they want in their bones, and they must see their true colors clearly. Gossiper: Some people have little ability, but they love gossiping. They are so good at gossip that they not only like to spread other gossip, but even make it out of nothing, and they also like to form gangs.

Too smart people can't afford it. Such people are always calculating or guarding against others. Speak frankly, if you have any difficulties, you can draw out a sword to help, and you can make friends if you are kind. Of course, the heart of preventing people should not be mistaken, and the heart of hurting people should not be there. Making friends depends on who you are. This man deserves attention. Friends are like your shadow, always appearing when you need them most, and never leaving. Making friends is heart-to-heart, and friends who can't heart-to-heart can't be made.

"If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people observe it, there will be no disciples." Choosing a friend is the key choice in life, which requires caution, but it should not be too demanding. First of all, know yourself and see what kind of friends you need now. Second, learn to give. There is no free lunch, and there is no banquet that never ends. Finally, adjust your mentality, take it lightly, and believe that you have your own arrangements!

People who are too close: Some people may be very curious and always want to get to the bottom of other people's affairs. Getting along with such people will make people feel very tired. Sentimental person: Although this is not a big evil, if you often get along with too many sentimental people, you will be infected with negative energy, which will affect your mood and way of doing things to some extent. Variable person: half-hearted, changeable, such a person will only affect your correct judgment, and even affect your development. Fair-weather friends: When they eat and drink, they seem to know you very well, but when you have problems, they stay away. These fair-weather friends can't make friends.

People with good popularity, because of limited energy, will consider how high this person's interest value is when choosing friends, and then use each other among these friends. The friends they make have no intimate friends, only interested friends. Too popular people lack sincerity and sincerity when making friends, so if you want to make friends with such people, you must think carefully, because they have no time to maintain your friendship and will use your value to help themselves.