Simply put, let's look at the principle of a person being a friend:
1. We can talk and have similar interests;
2. In general, you won't hurt me;
I can get some satisfaction from you.
The first two are quite simple, but the third is the core of our friends.
Let's talk about homosexuality first. Some people say that we should be content with the same sex, but that's the truth.
Let's look at several situations:
An equal type, everyone has heard a saying that the best opponent is often the best friend. What do you mean? In my heart, only when you know me and struggle with you can you satisfy your self-worth recognition.
A complementary, threesome, there must be my teacher. This relationship of learning from each other's strengths is relatively solid, and both can meet each other's needs for learning and progress.
A contrasting, gregarious animal or tribal life group usually has the strongest group and the relatively weak group. The most powerful always leads other small tiger spots to overcome difficulties and ensure their continued survival. Become an interdependent and mutually satisfying relationship. Some people say that the strong depend on others? Similarly, without other tigers, the strong are nothing.
The above shows that friends who have relationships with each other basically have impure factors in their hearts.
There are differences in the proportion of heterosexual friends in the above three principles. In the three choices of * * * same topic, security and satisfaction, satisfaction accounts for an absolute proportion.
In the process of getting along with boys and girls, boys can't have too much scruples because of the natural differences in their physiological conditions. In every contact, especially the offline meeting, the two sides are destined to have a pure heart beyond ordinary friends in the whole communication. You will find that you can't help looking at the opposite sex. Maybe it's because of the other person's little gesture, an unintentional word will make your heart tremble, and there may be an instant fantasy.