Generally, when it comes to cheating, the first thing people think of is men, but women are more likely to cheat, especially when the marriage breaks down and the relationship between husband and wife is cold, women are more likely to cheat. Women cannot stand men who are too ambitious, and this temptation for them is extremely powerful. Do women like to be ambiguous with six other types of men? Let's take a look.

Married women can’t stand the strong men here.

You can observe carefully: a group of women are chatting together, and their vanity soon rises. But the first thing they brag about is their husbands: "Well, my husband was in the right place last month." "Well, my husband went to Paris on a business trip the other day." "Yeah, my husband was too busy. He The project I’m responsible for is huge!” Then he brags about his own children: “My son has passed level 8 in piano” and “My daughter won the second prize in national composition.” Finally, I blew my outfit, clothes, jewelry, and handbags. Women are naturally vain. Before getting married, they compare themselves with their parents, husband, children, clothes, jewelry, house, car, style, etc. After getting married, everything in life will be compared by women.

So when a woman meets a successful man or an ambitious man, she will inevitably throw herself into his arms.

What kind of man do women like?

1. Handsome little fresh meat

It is said that men are lower body animals and women are visual animals. Generally speaking, even women like handsome guys, and they prefer handsome young men. When a woman encounters a piece of fresh meat, it is easy for her to compare herself with the men in her family. The more she compares, the more depressed she becomes. Over time, there will be a gap in the heart, and it is very common to end up with ambiguity.

2. Old lover.

There are many old lovers here, such as ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, first loves in college, etc. These are old lovers. For a woman who is deeply unhappy in her marriage, as long as she is at the right time and place, the passion and freshness of that year will be ignited again. So, there’s a lot that’s disjointed!

3. A career-oriented man who is not short of money

The main reason why women cheat is that their sexual life is not harmonious, and the second is coveting luxury and wealth. This kind of woman likes to be friends with that kind of rich man. No matter what industry she is in, she wants to seduce any wealthy and career-oriented man to satisfy her perverted vanity.

4. Caring for romantic men

Women are easily moved, especially when they are mentally fragile. At this time, a man comes over and takes the initiative to comfort you, take care of you, talk to you on the phone every day, and tease your heart. Then, before long, this woman will take the initiative to be with you. Because, what woman doesn’t like to be cared for? What woman doesn't like romance?

5. People with strong fighting ability

Just now in the third article, Shen Luomei also said that the main reason for women to cheat is sexual disharmony, that is, their own men, themselves My husband is not strong enough to satisfy himself. So, what should we do? Many women will choose to have sex outside of marriage, especially those men with strong fighting ability. Even if they check in every day, she still has ten thousand wishes in her heart, because she has been fulfilled for a long time.

6. Charming middle-aged married man

Many people say that their wives are better than others. There is another way of saying it. My husband is better than others! Therefore, when most women have an affair, they choose middle-aged, attractive married men, who are very popular! In the eyes of women, they are attractive, married, experienced and more masculine.

Seven signs that something is wrong in this couple's life.

Signs of a problem

1. No more sweet talk.

As we all know, it is easier for a couple to get along with each other if you talk sweetly to your wife, add some funny spices, and praise her every opportunity.

The way you speak to your spouse is one of the elements that make up a harmonious relationship. There are many ways to express a meaning, depending on what you say. If you're no longer interested in sweet talking to your partner, that's a bad sign.

2. Passionate about social activities.

Both of them are busy attending various dance parties or gatherings between friends to avoid close contact between them. When they are home alone, they always turn on the TV and don't want to talk much.

3. The clothes you wore on the first date no longer fit you.

The study showed that among 2,500 women surveyed, those who said their relationships were discordant and unhappy gained an average of 54 pounds in the 10 years after marriage. Psychologists analyzed: "For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for other women, weight gain can protect themselves from unnecessary sexual harassment. Of course, Their husbands will also be much less interested in it. "

4. I am embarrassed to put a photo of the two of them on the table.

There are no photos of you in the room. Even if there are, they are scattered among the clutter under the bed, covered with dust. At this time, you have to reflect on yourself.

5. Are you quietly waiting for the day you leave?

“Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dare to think about it because I don’t know what others will think of me. It makes me feel embarrassed, so I can only blame myself for being suspicious and not paying attention. Him. "If you think like this often, your marriage will be in danger.

6. Not willing to go on a long vacation with your partner.

It is an enviable beauty to vacation together in a tourist resort. But if you only choose a short vacation, it means that you have no intention of staying with your partner for too long, which is sometimes a sign of cracks in your relationship.

7. The two no longer quarrel.

This is the worst possible sign. Conversely, young couples who argue all the time are more likely to live together than depressed couples. At least the argument shows that you still have the passion and courage to communicate honestly. And that kind of lazy and indifferent silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of couples quarreling. When the anger disappears, everything will be fine; the second is that the head is dizzy. At this time, it is water under the bridge and it is irreversible.

Warm reminder: Husband and wife should talk to each other frequently and let each other know what the other is thinking. This is the most important thing for two people to get along for a long time. It will also keep the two people close and will not cause them to separate from each other.

The reason why we can’t grow old together.

1. Look old.

According to this rule, if a woman gets married when she is young, she will get a good price, which means she can be generous enough to find a man she likes to accompany her. Today, however, women have broken this boundary. If this man has money, a car, a house, or no wife, he will definitely become a woman's first choice.

However, men like to be young just as much as women, especially successful men who have higher requirements in this regard. It's a pity that every woman's youth will fade with time, and her original charm is gone, replaced by an old and yellowed face, which leads to the ending of breakup and impending divorce. This probability mostly happens to men and women who go to the wrong house.

On the contrary, women who happily marry into wealthy families are the biggest victims. Men who like you because you are young and beautiful will also be abandoned because of your past.

2. The running-in failed.

A married couple is like two angular stones. When we first met, we were bound by each other's chrome. It's hard to tell who hurt whom, but they didn't mean to. Even after the baptism of love, quarrels are inevitable when getting married. Over time, the two people no longer face each other, but have to adapt to each other and move their positions to the chromium.

It means smoothing out the thorny places, giving in to each other, and slowly smoothing out each other's edges. Old people always say that no matter how big a rock is, it can't crush a crab, which sounds awkward. In fact, this statement makes sense, because crabs can always find the position that suits them best, and so should lovers. Every couple should find their own niche.

3. Self-neglect

The husband is the backbone of the family, and a man’s status determines the appearance of interpersonal communication. So while the man is working hard, the woman is also his unknown helper behind the scenes. Every woman hopes that her husband's wife will be respected and do her best to promote her husband's promotion and development. But once her husband became expensive, she began to feel uneasy, so she continued to torture herself and her husband. The purpose is very simple, just to prevent her husband from eating the vicissitudes of life on her face.

Just like some couples can honor, disgrace and have sex, but cannot share happiness. Of course, if you don't get along well, it's just the old saying that husband and wife are of the same species, and they will fly apart when disaster strikes. Therefore, a woman's neglect of herself is an important reason for her marriage. While helping your husband, you must also consider your own extraordinary image.

4. Making trouble

Nowadays we often talk about extramarital affairs because of the intervention of a third party. The third party is the strongest killer of marriage. Whether a man or a woman gets married, this kind of temptation is indispensable. If a man looks at his wife for too long, he will feel disgusted and look for a younger colleague. After a woman looks at her husband for a long time, she will also suffer from aesthetic fatigue, and she will no longer be as handsome as the handsome guy she used to be. However, the root causes of marital breakdown are not external factors that can be seen at a glance. By middle age, men are already very accomplished and their advantages are becoming more and more obvious. When both parties' demands for each other become farther and farther away, the balance between the two parties in the marriage will almost certainly be broken.

Family pressure

1. Conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Before marriage, I had never heard that women would disagree if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good. After all, it's not their turn yet. After I got married, I realized that conquering a man is not enough, you also have to face his entire family. Discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an issue that many people shake their heads and sigh when mentioned. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may be the most delicate and difficult relationship in the world. They love the same man and share his love.

In dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of the son is very important. Only if the bowl of water is flat, the mother will not be disappointed, the wife will not have nowhere to complain, and the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be alleviated. When my mother-in-law criticizes my daughter-in-law, as a son, I should try my best to shoulder my responsibilities to my wife and ease the atmosphere of the other party. If you encounter your wife complaining, explain and comfort her more, and ask her to forgive the old man for the sake of the relationship between the couple and let her get rid of her grievances. Only when a man is a good buffer can conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get better and better, and family harmony can be achieved. Otherwise, once a woman breaks out, she will be more inclined to divorce.

2. Financial disputes

Now that you are husband and wife and living at home, your money will be shared, but this is not the case. Maybe a man or a woman has more siblings or relatives and friends, so both men and women will use their money to help them. There is nothing wrong with this, but neither of them is willing to spend money on people who have nothing to do with them, and they will not enjoy their hard-earned money in the end.

They have all helped others. Although it is a good thing, they cannot withstand this kind of torture. Excluding the same property expenses, if both men and women keep their own small treasury privately or serve the public as usual without the permission of their spouses, the result after being discovered will be a fierce battle. After the war, the two sides fought over economic disputes. Around you and me, we often see such final divorce results.

Conclusion: After reading this article, everyone should quickly reflect on whether there are signs in the article in their own lives, and if so, deal with them in time. If there is family pressure, it doesn't matter. Talk to each other properly, go out and relax, and let the relationship return to the state of love.