Zeng Guofan had a far-reaching influence on the politics, military affairs, culture and economy of the Qing Dynasty. All his life, he was the governor of Liangjiang and a university student in Wuyingdian, and he was named the first-class righteous Hou Yong. After he died, posthumous title? Zheng Wen? , later said? Ceng Wenzheng? .
His life is full of legends, and his stories have inspired countless people. Bai Zeng, a famous host, said frankly that he was depressed because he suddenly woke up after reading Zeng Guofan's story.
In dealing with people, Zeng Guofan's experience has left us many valuable suggestions for reference. For example, in making friends, Zeng Guofan has his own unique view: eight to nine? .
People who overcome themselves; Make friends with people who are better than yourself, and you can only learn from people who are better than yourself. Confucius said: In a threesome, there must be a teacher. When I say that people who are better than themselves are not necessarily people who are far away from themselves in all aspects, but everyone has their own strengths, so we make friends with this person's strengths and learn from others' strengths for our use.
Those who are virtuous and have a successful career; To make friends is to choose virtuous people, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. The quality of people around you determines your quality. If you are surrounded by crooked melons and cracked dates, others will not give you a high evaluation.
You should believe that there is a magnetic field between people, and what kind of person you are will attract what kind of people, so try to improve yourself and make friends with virtuous people.
Interesting people; Interesting people can always find interest in life, and you don't want to be friends with a boring person.
Interest is the spice of life. Make an interesting friend and your life will become interesting.
Lose everything to the loser; Losing is a blessing. Those who can bear losses in life are those who deserve to make friends. They can endure, regardless of small gains and losses, regardless of small profits, and have a broad mind. Such a person, you make friends with her, and everything will think of you.
An outspoken speaker; Advice that is hard to listen to is helpful, and having a friend who dares to tell the truth in life is a blessing. Many times, we are used to flattery and flattery from others, and often ignore our own shortcomings and deficiencies, so in fact, we really need a friend who can help us point out our mistakes and promote our growth.
Make friends with ambitious people; People with lofty ideals often have extraordinary beliefs and firm will, and with excellent people, they will become excellent. He will urge you to keep fit together, supervise your study, help you control your diet, accomplish your goals with you at every critical moment of your life, and make progress with you to become a better person.
Payment of benefits to people in Eritrea; There are many people who add icing on the cake, but few people who send charcoal in the snow. And those who are in urgent need of help are the ones who deserve our lives. Only in the face of right and wrong, a person's character will be revealed.
Be considerate. There are many people around us who always like to make trouble without reason. They like to bargain for every little thing. It's annoying to take out everything that has gone wrong. There are many troubles in life. Are you happy? Why are we fighting?
Zeng Guofan's life story can always give us a lot of inspiration. By reading his story, we can learn a lot about how to be a man, which will be of great help to us in the future.