The friendship of friends is higher than the sky and wider than the earth, and we will definitely remember those years; The friendship of friends is the most precious thing in our life, like a glass of wine, like an old song ... "A" My Good Brother "sang many people's youth years and also sang many people's expectations.

Friends are an indispensable part of life. Without friends, life will lose a lot of fun, and the road to growth will be incomplete because of lack of friends. It is very lucky to have good friends, because good friends are often hard to meet.

Friends walk together all their lives. True friendship often has the following three characteristics. Do you have all these?

First, mutual trust.

Trust is a rare quality. At present, with the progress of the times, the development of science and technology, especially the development of the internet, people's lives are becoming more and more colorful, and it is more and more convenient to eat, drink, live and travel.

But at the same time, the existence of the network casts a mysterious veil on people behind the screen, which makes people exercise their rights through the network and at the same time, their trust in each other begins to decline. This distrust has spread from the internet to real life and to us.

Especially between friends. If you don't trust your friends, you will feel that life is empty, false, powerless and even desperate. It is unimaginable to be together, to be wary of each other, to speak insincerely and insincerely, not to sacrifice ourselves for friendship, and to be together with each other in a mask of hypocrisy.

On the contrary, if we trust our friends enough, everything will be very different. As long as we trust our friends enough, our goal is no longer far away. We dare to think, to work hard, and to give to people we trust. Only in this way can we join hands and encourage each other on the road of life, and we can win together.

Besides, if we have enough trust in our friend, his joy can be shared with you, his pain can be confided to you, and the pressure can be borne by you, so that you can feel that you are needed at any time, and your existence is of great value. Such friends can give you more encouragement and make you a better self.

Trust is a kind of wealth. Only when friends are United can they accompany each other and grow together.

Second, there is no sense of distance.

The sense of distance is a magical feeling, invisible and intangible, but real, affecting our lives. For example, childhood friends, if separated all the year round, can always feel faint alienation and shallow embarrassment when they meet again, which is caused by different growth environments;

Another example is a lover who broke up. They know each other very well, but if they are together again, they always care about each other. There seems to be a wall between them, which makes them drift away. I lost this.

There is no sense of distance between really good friends. Making friends pays the most attention to interesting souls. We are attracted to each other, so we get close to each other and get to know each other. We have similar personalities and hobbies, and our three views are the same. What you said is what I think. After understanding it, we will feel at home. Therefore, even if we are separated, we can still have a good chat and talk again, as if we had never been separated.

A sense of distance is a yardstick to measure the distance between people, but it is inseparable from true friendship.

Third, get to know each other.

Liao Yimei wrote in Soft: "Everyone is lonely. In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex. What is rare is to meet understanding. " This sentence was originally used to describe love, but it also applies to friendship. Nothing else is rare, the most rare thing is understanding.

Imagine if your friend doesn't know you, you like porridge, he gives you soybean milk, you like meat, he gives you vegetables, but you want to relax, but he insists on it, and you are still under the banner of "I am doing this for your own good". Will you be happy?

If your friends always disagree with you and don't understand your intentions, your efforts, your pride, your weakness and your armor, will you accept it? It's devastating to have such friends, or such people can't be called friends. A true friend is someone who thinks and cares for each other everywhere, so that friendship can last forever.