When I was in the second, third or fourth grade of elementary school, I had a cheerful and sunny personality, and was very good at making friends with others. So I had a large group of friends, and there were three of them who played best.

I was filled with emotion after reading your story. You and I used to be so similar.

The time when your personality changed and the loneliness you felt in junior high school are almost consistent with mine!

I also had a cheerful personality in the first to third grade of elementary school, but gradually became alienated from my classmates in the fourth and fifth grade. Then in junior high school and high school, I was always anxious and anxious, desperately looking for friends I could rely on. I often feel sad when I see others talking and laughing. I want to talk to others, but I don’t know what to say.

I have been suffering and struggling like this T^T

Even in the second year of high school, I had a big mental breakdown, and I had to rely on the psychology teacher to adjust it.

Are you in junior high school now? I have a few questions to know: (1) When you were in fifth or sixth grade, what happened to your personality that started to change? (2) Do your parents care about your spiritual growth? Did they encourage you to play more with others before? I will still lock you at home,,,

My sister admires you for being able to ask for help online. Unlike my sister at that time, she had no way to seek help. However, netizens generally may not have the patience or professional ability to teach you specific methods of communication.

My sister recommends that you seek help from a psychological counselor, and the results will be good. I wonder if your school has one? It may cost money to look for someone outside the school

If you have a relative who is willing to listen and is wise, that would be the best thing. Tell him or her about your troubles

Or your teacher

You can learn to communicate, so don’t worry!

I would like to recommend you a website with more professional answers: Zhihu. You can go up and read the questions and answers about relationships, or ask questions

Oh! I hope your sad days can go away soon. You are only in junior high school and your character has not been finalized yet, so you still have a chance. My sister’s personality is now fixed and it’s hard to change it! It's a bit sad, but you can get used to it,,,

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me