To start a family, in my opinion, one should start a career first and then start a family. In today's society, marriage is too heavy for a boy. His own sense of responsibility, the RV gift requested by the woman, and the demands of both parents destroyed the bright light in his eyes one after another.

I believe that at this age, you should work hard without any distractions. No matter what degree or major you have, you should be brave enough to go for it.

Only after people have their own wealth and rights can they have the opportunity to choose. Excellent people can choose others, but before you were being chosen.

I don’t think blind dates are undesirable. Many excellent people have not found their significant other due to various reasons. Blind date can give everyone an opportunity to get to know each other. But for those people who ask you if you have a house or a car and how much your monthly salary is when you meet them, if you were asked to choose between an RV and your significant other, you would probably choose a house and a car. Blind dates have long been impure.

The Internet era has given rise to too much comparison. Many people see someone who is not as good as you on the Internet marry a rich man and change their mind, and their hearts will instantly become unbalanced. Therefore, those who are well-matched are not good enough, and those whose conditions are worse than their own are even more sarcastic and ridiculed. This trend has brought about countless young men and women who are still single.

So, even if my parents have been urging me, I am not willing to go on a blind date early. I am currently working in my first year after graduation. The salary is not high and I can barely take care of myself. Going on a blind date in a hurry is irresponsible to both people.