Congratulations, friend. I think your idea is wrong. Don't think about what you will get on the first date. The most important thing is to see if the two sides get along. If your plan fails, she won't go out with you again. She'll think you're just trying to meet your own needs. If you are unreliable, you won't even have friends. The gain is outweighed by the loss. So be sure to forget all these thoughts, but maybe the other party will give you a hint, hehe! Pay more attention to details, such as: walking on the side of the road, you have to walk outside and let her walk inside; When you see her stepping on the manhole cover, give her a hand and tell her not to step on it next time to avoid falling; Drive to open the door and block your head; Eating with vegetables and so on can help you earn a lot of impression points. Anyway, if it starts at four o'clock in the afternoon, there are the following plans:

1 and 4-5 o'clock to go shopping (you can praise her through clothing accessories or something); Eat at 5-6 o'clock (it is best not to order food, but to listen to her advice) and watch a movie at 6-8 o'clock (it is recommended to watch a movie "Ghosts in My Heart", which is both a romantic film and a ghost film. You can let her choose two movies, and then exclude those you don't want to see. The movies currently on show include The Disciple, Ghost in My Heart, The Gemini Thief, Love Call Transfer, Air Combat Hero and so on.

2. eat directly. I don't think she will eat at noon. If she is definitely hungry, she will eat, then watch movies, and finally go to Starbucks or the typhoon shelter to have drinks, play cards and chat.

3. Go directly to the playground and choose exciting fun.

Finally, I suggest not to go to the disco, where it is chaotic and there are many uncertainties, which is not suitable for first meeting. The rest is up to you. You'd better take a taxi to take her back at night until it can't be delivered, and tell her that you are very happy today or something. Don't dress too formally, lest you give her a sense of depression. Make yourself comfortable. Humor, wit, generosity and wit are the necessary factors for success. Think carefully about what she said. I didn't understand it once, but now I regret it ~ friends wish you success! ! !

Personal opinion, please don't laugh ~

Let's talk about sex. I once saw an American movie called "Changing into a Hot Girl". The hero in the film once wanted to leave the heroine because of longing, but the heroine didn't give it to him because she wanted to give it to her beloved after 18' s adult birthday. Finally, only because of the boy's insistence at the last moment, this love can continue.

The first time I met her, if she didn't care much about sex, then this girl was not worth loving at all. In fact, what I want to say is that she may have her own ideas, and you can only deepen your feelings in the process of getting to know each other. The strong sexual consciousness of boys is caused by the social environment and the needs of their own growth. It's not your fault, but as long as you understand the difference between men and women, boys must not misunderstand whether girls don't love themselves because they don't pay anything. If boys are still haggling over these unmanly feelings, girls will even distrust you. Moreover, the more attractive a woman is to a man, the less likely she is to give herself the first time. She may fantasize that girls like fantasy, romance, perfection and so on on the day of marriage proposal, the most touching day. Therefore, we should try our best to understand each other's thoughts while knowing ourselves. Only in this way can we find our true love. Sincerely bless you, friend!