What is the most precious thing in life? For a long time, like most people, I have always thought that the most precious things in the world are "unavailable" and "lost". People often say that what you can't get is the most precious. Yes, because I can't get it, I only have expectations, only dreams, only lifelong pursuits. Even if it is like a moth, even if it is like a castle in the air, even if it is like a lazy man waiting for a pie to fall from the sky, even if it is like a desert walker heading for a mirage. Because you can't get it, you will be disappointed, desperate and heartbroken. This feeling will be deeply imprinted in our memory, lingering, lingering in our minds, affecting our lives and making us insomnia. We cling to what we can't get, so we decide that it is the most precious thing. Similarly, when we suddenly find that what we once had is very precious, we often can't have it anymore. Like childhood. Everyone says that childhood is golden and dreams are colorful. But when we were young, we didn't think so. When I was a child, I always looked forward to the New Year, to growing up and to growing taller-so that I could ride my bike and run wildly without being stopped by my parents, and I didn't have to climb a stool to get the candy and biscuits my mother put on the top of the cupboard. The days passed in expectation, and we grew up day by day. But the troubles that follow are increasing day by day. Therefore, I miss the time when "teenagers seldom worry and watch the four-star lanterns", and I really hope to return to my mother's body and start over. However, time will not go back, and the lost childhood will never come back. The philosopher said: You can't step on the same river with your feet. Confucius shouted at the east-flowing river: the deceased is like a husband, not giving up day and night. Happy childhood, like water flowing from the east, can not be separated from me. I'm in a mess today and I'm bored. The lost thing is so beautiful in our hearts that we don't know its preciousness until it is lost, and there are hundreds of flavors in our hearts. What a pity, what a pain, what a nuisance, what a miss. Facing the filth of life, I miss the innocent feelings of the past; Facing the deception of life, I miss my sincerity; Facing today's old face, I miss the wind and rain, so the tears of regret will soak your pillow, and the lost mood will sting your nerves, and you will hope that you will never return to the past. There is a line in A Chinese Odyssey: "I once had a sincere feeling in front of me, and I didn't cherish it. If God gives me another chance, I will say three words to her-I love you. If I have to add a deadline in front, I hope it is 10,000 years. " Although I don't like this movie, I remember this classic line. The reason is the same as everyone else-I lost what I thought was the most precious thing. What is not lost is precious, but it is not the most precious. The most precious thing in the world should be to hold happiness in your hands and cherish the people in front of you. Rixiu Zen master once said: There are only three days in life-yesterday, today and tomorrow. Those who live in yesterday are confused, those who live in tomorrow are waiting, and only those who live in today are the most reliable. Yes, loss is like yesterday, and loss is like tomorrow. Precious yesterday has been lost and will never come back; What you didn't get hasn't come yet, so you can't grasp it. We should cherish today's life and spend every minute of it seriously. Cherish what you have, even if you don't realize how important and precious it is now; Even if it is ordinary like a grass, ordinary like a glass of water, ordinary like a grain of dust floating in the wind. Because only you cherish it, you won't suffer from losing it in the future, and you won't have time to worry about what you can't get. Go home often when you have time and spend more time with your family. Don't wait until "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, and the son wants to be filial and his relatives are not there" to regret, to suffer and to cry. Grasp the present happiness in your hands and cherish the people in front of you! Because it is the most precious thing in the world.