It is human nature that the taste is light first and then strong, and then it feels good and full. If you concentrate first and then dilute, you will feel worse than before. People are very close at first, and often with the passage of time, the relationship will gradually fade away and drift away. It's better to be a little distant at first. With the deepening of understanding, feelings will gradually heat up and the relationship will become closer and closer. The way to be friends is to get to know each other. Some people are born familiar and good at dancing with long sleeves. It's really a mistake that they will talk about everything when they meet strangers. Only after full contact can people deepen their understanding and establish unbreakable friendship. Trying to be intimate at once is often counterproductive.
Zhi Zhi can decide, decide and settle down. It is very important to grasp and grasp everything properly. It is very dangerous not to know how to advance and retreat, how to stop, when to slow down, when to stop and when to slow down. It is not blindly rushing forward, or it is 100% correct. Mu Xin, a famous poet, once sang in a low voice: In the past, horses and chariots were slow. In fact, sometimes slowing down is a kind of enjoyment of life. If you want to get the gift of nature, you should slow down, listen to the tinkling of mountains and streams, listen to the pines in the pine forest, and understand that other mountains are short under the sky. At the top of the mountain, I feel the comfort of fine sand touching my feet on the beach by the sea, and watch the majestic momentum of the sea ebbing and flowing, the waves rolling and the waves emptying. Only when you settle down can you really enjoy the love and gifts of nature.
? The order of doing things is very important. If the order is misplaced, the order and steps are misplaced or reversed, things will often be destroyed. Do the right thing and decide that we will not deviate from the right direction. The right thing to do is to ensure that we can successfully achieve our predetermined goals. If you don't pay attention to the ways and means of doing things, your efforts will be in vain, and you have spent a lot of effort but can't get good results. Pay attention to the time sequence of things, spatial order, analyze and judge in detail, and decide the steps and sequence of doing things, what to do first, what to do later and what to do finally. Must be methodical, methodical. It must be considered, planned, planned and arranged in advance, and adjusted in time according to the specific situation in the promotion process. Instead of not planning ahead before things happen, at the last moment, cramming, making a fuss, being in a hurry and falling into an extremely passive predicament.