Uncle Yin is 79 years old and his wife died of illness six years ago. Since then, Uncle Yin has lived his own life. He didn't eat hot food when he came back from work, and no one talked at ordinary times. Uncle Yin feels very lonely for this. In addition, Uncle Yin thinks that he is in good health and has no problem living for more than ten years, so he has the idea of finding a wife and his children are very supportive. Later, Uncle Yin found a matchmaking company to help him find a wife, and the matchmaking company soon matched a woman who wanted to find a 78-year-old wife. However, the premise for Uncle Yin to meet the woman is to pay 6,000 yuan to the matchmaking company, and Uncle Yin also paid it soon, but the woman only talked with Uncle Yin for 8 minutes and left, and then Uncle Yin never asked out a woman again. The woman said to let Uncle Yin wait for another two years. A reporter found out that the matchmaking company entrusted by Uncle Yin was also cancelled last year, which means that Uncle Yin's money and people were in vain.

One of the ways to fill the emotional deficiency of the lonely elderly is to take the elderly to their children's homes. The biggest demand of the old people now is to be accompanied. What the elderly fear most is loneliness. One way to solve the loneliness of the elderly is to let their children take the elderly to live in their own homes. On the one hand, children can keep the elderly away from loneliness and have someone to talk to. On the other hand, children can also take care of the elderly conveniently, without worrying about any emergencies when the elderly live alone. My family is like this. After my grandmother died, my father took my grandfather to live in my house. Grandpa goes shopping during the day and watches TV and chats with his father at night. Life is very happy, and grandpa himself has become optimistic.

The second way to fill the emotional deficiency of lonely old people: find a reliable wife. Many old people around you are looking for partners again after their wives died. Personally, there is nothing wrong with it. It's also good to spend more time with your parents. However, children can find suitable and reliable partners for their parents through inquiries from relatives and friends, and try to avoid some informal matchmaking companies.

As children, we should also pay more attention to the psychology that the elderly need companionship and spend more time with their parents when they have time.