The best way to interact with people is to never get tired of being together for a long time.
There is no formality in getting along with each other. It is all about being relaxed and comfortable. Only by simply getting along with one's heart can people feel like spring breeze. In the long years, the most comfortable relationship is: not tired of being together, and never tired of being together for a long time. Any relationship that takes great effort to maintain is definitely not an ideal state.
A truly comfortable relationship must have the same views and be able to talk together naturally. I once heard a saying: "The farthest distance in the world is not the world apart, but the fact that I am standing in front of you, but we can't talk to each other.
As the saying goes: Birds and fish have different paths. , we will never meet again. Instead of deliberately trying to please a relationship and choosing to accommodate and compromise, it is better to turn around and find the person you can really talk to.
Someone once concluded that true friends are divided. There are three types: the first one has the same ideals, the second one has the same language, and the third one has the same hobbies. No one wants to be backward compatible all the time. Be willing to keep looking up. A truly comfortable relationship must be one with similar interests and similar temperaments, and we can travel to distant places together; we have similar hobbies and there are no barriers to communication. It is like drinking a cup of good tea. No matter how many years pass, we will never get bored with each other, and we will still feel comfortable getting along with each other.
2 In life, there are some things when getting along with others. , often need to find various topics to relieve the embarrassment, but a true confidant can know what the other person is thinking with just one look, and does not need to rack his brains to find topics or think about what to say to make the atmosphere not awkward, or even the occasional silence. Just right.
I remember someone on the Internet once asked this question: "What is the best relationship between people?"
There is a favorable answer below. : "That's probably, every time we meet, even if we are silent, we are not embarrassed, even if we are speechless, we understand. It is true that stranger relationships require greetings; true feelings do not need to deliberately talk too much." A truly comfortable relationship , it must be a heart-to-heart understanding and a tacit understanding without words. Just like a key inserted into the right keyhole, and your feet put into the right shoe size, there is no need to suffer or pretend, it is comfortable and effortless.
Three people will interact with many people in this life, but there are very few truly comfortable relationships where they can truly fall in love with each other.
“Be with whomever you feel comfortable with, including a friend who read a passage and said: Yes, when you are tired, just stay away. Those who can enter my heart will be treated as kings, and those who do not enter my heart will be treated as kings. Those who do not bother to be perfunctory. In this world, there is no template for feelings, only mutual sincerity; there is no formality in getting along, it is all about being relaxed and comfortable.
The best way to get along is to be relaxed and casual with someone you are comfortable with. , Wen "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as waking up." "Really warm and calm. As the saying goes: A comfortable relationship is not the surprise of joy at first sight, but the comfort that lasts for a long time. This feeling is just like what is written in a poem: The grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is Shake its leaves. It's very beautiful when we stand and don't talk. The key to making friends is to be at peace with each other, far and near.
May you and I be able to get along with each other in a moderate manner. What a comfortable and comfortable relationship, and a precious and long-lasting relationship.