In modern life, WeChat is not only a communication tool, but also a necessity for us to keep old things and make new friends.
as a popular network information exchange platform, wechat has been favored by more and more people. Whether in the workplace or in life, there will always be people holding mobile phones and asking for friends.
As the instant messaging software with the largest number of users in China, WeChat really provides us with great convenience. In addition to chatting, you can also conduct meetings, reading, sharing and other operations, especially the "friend circle" function of WeChat, so that everyone can share or browse the status of friends without leaving home.
In the past, we always lost contact with many people because of the distance, and our circle of friends became smaller. The WeChat circle of friends seems to have closely linked these "lost" people.
But it seems that the habit of making friends is gradually fading out of the social platform. If you look closely, you will find that there seems to be such a group of people around us, as if they will never make friends.
1 No time
Too busy at work, too tired at life, too busy to browse the circle of friends. This kind of people's lives are very full, and they are busy every day, so busy that they don't have time to send a circle of friends. In fact, they don't have time at all, just think that time is precious and there is no need to waste time in this regard.
several friends on wechat said that they were so busy at work every day that they didn't even have time to sit on the sofa when they got home, so they began to cook and clean the pot again. By the time they finished everything, it was early in the morning after taking a bath.
At this moment, the biggest wish in my heart is to lie still in bed, let alone make friends, and even have no time to brush friends.
2 is relatively low-key
Life is for yourself, not for others to see. You have your own life, and you know it well. Why should others know? Actions are far more important than words.
In real life, some people are relatively low-key. They like real life and prefer to talk face to face with friends than friends. For example, he often invites friends to chat over coffee in a coffee shop, which seems to be quite enjoyable. This is the way of communication he really needs.
They are steady and deep, and prefer to read entertainment and social articles online to increase their personal experience, instead of sending friends and replying to others one by one. This is not in line with their behavior!
There are also many people who seldom take the initiative to deal with others because of their introversion and lack of social communication, and do not like eating, traveling and playing games in groups. I often like to be alone, so my life seems boring to others. Since I like to live a quiet life in a world without competition, there is no need to make friends.
3 Successful people
Generally speaking, some successful people have their own social circles, and most of their living conditions and thoughts are hidden. There is a saying that the more you show off, the more you lack. People with real strength are often very low-key, because they have no sense of inferiority, so they don't need to show off, and such people don't need to make friends, because they don't need to package themselves.
They are strong in appearance and successful in their careers, but they lack time to spend with their families. If they have time to spend quality time with their families, they don't want others to disturb them. Usually busy with work, there is no leisure time to make friends.
And often these successful people have certain internal groups. When there is any problem between them, or what happened, they usually communicate in the group, instead of posting it in the circle of friends to let everyone know.
4 lose interest
lose interest in the circle of friends, and the circle of friends tells the truth less and is full of routines. What is really terrible is to show off every day, or even to show off falsely. For example, when I go back to my hometown in the countryside, I can take a beautiful picture and say that I have traveled abroad. Even if you eat KFC, you must exaggerate into western food. On the surface, it is humor, but in fact it is vanity and clingy.
Nowadays, many people think that the circle of friends is not a place to tell the truth, which seems to be divided into two extremes. On the one hand, they are all promoting positive energy and sending inspirational chicken soup, and few people share their true thoughts. On the other hand, he plays up negative energy every day, lamenting that spring hurts autumn, and feeling depressed after reading his content, and some even ruin the good mood of the day.
Some netizens said: Now, all the private messages on WeChat are praises. One or three episodes praise the baby ranking, and two or four or six episodes praise the lucky draw. Some people even praise the wedding photos. It is annoying to receive too many private messages, so they simply close their circle of friends and have lost interest in them.
Some people say that they are depressed recently and don't want to appear in anyone's world.
5 Pay attention to privacy
Sometimes people think that people who don't make friends circle must be because life is too monotonous and boring to make friends circle blank. There is a kind of people who are just the opposite. Their state is not inferior to anyone else, but they have a low-key feeling of being calm and uncontested. Such people are unwilling to show their lives to others in the form of friends circle.
these people don't like to make friends because they pay attention to privacy protection. I don't want others to know my life status, even if I send it once in a while, I will reprint some articles and so on. These people may not care about the circle of friends platform.